why is she doing this to me?

[tom_gbr]

the last time i spoke to my ex girlfriend was wednesday and at the time i said to her that i wont be getting in contact with u for a while as im finding this really hard as my feelings havent changed.

 

well tonight i just got a text message from her at 12 am saying ' just texting to say that i am really missin you xx '

 

what is she doing to me, is she trying to make this harder for me, she was the one that finished it because her feelings were fading and that she didint want a boyfriend in her life and she thought she would be missing out if she stayed with me. and she sends me a message like this?

 

i was coping fine today until she text me, i havent replied as it will make me worse, i know shes on a night out and probably drunk

 

hope im doing the right thing, it was so hard for me not to text her back as i still love her so much

[Davey]

I think you are right to try keeping your distance.

 

I understand because im in a situation where im living with my recently split up ex and i just want to leave. Sadly my contract ends in june and all the other tenants have screwed the landlord over by leaving (and a going to court as a result) so i have to suffer on my own for a while. Plus she already has a new boyfriend.

 

As for the text, its one of those things that messes with your head which may or may not be the idea of it. Dont let her mess you around, I know its hard not to ignore things like this, im the same. I had a text off an ex girlfriend (who finished it) before just at the point when i was finally over her, saying that she wanted to get back together again. And I did. Then it ended again. Then back to square 1.

 

First chance I get i'll be leaving this house so that I dont have to face her (and the new 'him') everyday!

 

So I think keeping your distance might help. I generally try to keep busy to tke my mind off things. Going out with my mates does wonders. Unfortunatly i am low on money so that has to be limited. Just talking to/ being with someone helps. I wish I had someone to talk to now. But they buggered off.