gokart96 Posted March 26, 2011 Posted March 26, 2011 So my recent ex and I broke up about a month ago. We went through about 3 weeks of NC, and now she is trying to be friends again, which is completely opposite of what I want. Heres the background. We met in college about a year and a half ago, the start of the 2009 school year, and started dating, and took a break April of 2010 to June, and then things were great again. This recent break up is a bit more serious. She would not talk to me for a few days so I just left it alone and leave it be. I started doing great, and then out of nowhere she starts to talk to me. We were talking and it came up that she had sex with another dude already. That really shook me up. I really do love her, and want it to ultimately work out, but I have no idea what to do. My family really offers no sort of reconciliation, so here I am turning to the people on the internet. We broke it off because we started arguing, and instead of work through our problems we shoved them under the rug, and after time it built up so much that she couldn't take it anymore. I just have no idea what to do with this situation. She was a best friend to me before we started dating, we told each other everything, hung out all the time, and then it slowly went to a dating situation. When she left it felt like the whole world was crashing in on me, and I had to change my routines just so I could function, and I'm still getting used to not seeing her on the weekends all the time. Any help would be appreciated.
VJohnson32 Posted March 26, 2011 Posted March 26, 2011 Have you told her how you feel? Does she feel the same way about you? You have to communicate, tell her your situation and what do you want from all of this. If she just wants to be your friend and has no feelings for you then ... you have to make a decision. Be her friend and be miserable while she sleeps around with different guys or cut all connections with her.
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