Hopeless Girl Posted March 26, 2011 Posted March 26, 2011 So im speaking to my ex boyfriend again and we've been apart for 1 WEEK!!! yeaaa thats right... If you know how to handle the situation u can achieve it. I was for 3 days without texting and NC. I texted him and he texted back and little did I know he dumped me cause he thought I didn't love him the same way (cause im very aloof). So what I did was send him normal texts like goodmorning and heyy do u like this band and random sutff just communicating. I found out from my best friend yesterday that on thursday (the day that i saw him hangin out with some of his buddies) that he came back just to see me. He told my best friend that he felt that I didnt love him but he never told me anything (I FIGURED) . Anyways I didnt text him on anything to do with the relationship. I just played it cool and Im fighting for him and Im waiting for the right moment so we can talk. Hope u liked my story
joshextreme Posted March 26, 2011 Posted March 26, 2011 So im speaking to my ex boyfriend again and we've been apart for 1 WEEK!!! yeaaa thats right... If you know how to handle the situation u can achieve it. I was for 3 days without texting and NC. I texted him and he texted back and little did I know he dumped me cause he thought I didn't love him the same way (cause im very aloof). So what I did was send him normal texts like goodmorning and heyy do u like this band and random sutff just communicating. I found out from my best friend yesterday that on thursday (the day that i saw him hangin out with some of his buddies) that he came back just to see me. He told my best friend that he felt that I didnt love him but he never told me anything (I FIGURED) . Anyways I didnt text him on anything to do with the relationship. I just played it cool and Im fighting for him and Im waiting for the right moment so we can talk. Hope u liked my story This happens if you know right off the bat what you're doing. Dumpees usually are messes and don't thin straight, like me, and we just keep trying for months until we realize what's good for us. Anyways I'm happy for
Author Hopeless Girl Posted March 26, 2011 Author Posted March 26, 2011 This happens if you know right off the bat what you're doing. Dumpees usually are messes and don't thin straight, like me, and we just keep trying for months until we realize what's good for us. Anyways I'm happy for Thing is I had a boyfriend and he dumped me in oct 2009. I was a mess I did everything in the "Follow this rules to NOT get your ex back" book. So when this one dumped me I was like ok put yourself together and did the total opposite but with breaking some rules. In all I pretended I was great and was just playing it cool and I did it at the right moment. Hope you guys can achieve your goal. Love u
joshextreme Posted March 26, 2011 Posted March 26, 2011 Thing is I had a boyfriend and he dumped me in oct 2009. I was a mess I did everything in the "Follow this rules to NOT get your ex back" book. So when this one dumped me I was like ok put yourself together and did the total opposite but with breaking some rules. In all I pretended I was great and was just playing it cool and I did it at the right moment. Hope you guys can achieve your goal. Love u Learned from experience and you should be proud of yourself. I know i learned what NOT to do this time around and from this forum
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