vezek Posted March 26, 2011 Posted March 26, 2011 Please advise... We started dating 5 months ago. She didn't tell me that she and her best boyfriend were lovers in the past. After 3 months I noticed one day in her email, that she was sending him emails that they contained song lyrics about love.... also she was writting documents about love and how she was in a bad mood because she lost her other half (these documents were sent before me)... A couple of songs were sent even when we were going out... Anyways... when I asked her, she told me that they were lovers a year ago and they also did it a couple of times 2 months before we started dating. She told me that the documents and lyrics were sent to him because he likes poetry and philosophy... The only reason she wrote them (she told me) is because she loves writting. The truth here is that she was writting before they met... I saw some old documents. Because I have feelings for her I tried to get it out of mind and tried to believe her... Am I stupid???? Because I can't stand it anymore.... I hate his name and I don't want her to talk to him anymore, a thing that I cannot ask her to do. I told her that I don't like the situation and now she is hiding things from me... she never answers his calls in front of me... but when she gets the chance, she calls him. They also work together and they meet 2-3 times a week for a couple of hours... Do I have a choice???? What I can do???? Please help...
mark982 Posted March 26, 2011 Posted March 26, 2011 you've only been dating 5 months! give her a choice, forget him, or you. too much drama in a early relationship.
whammy Posted March 26, 2011 Posted March 26, 2011 a relationship has to be perfect and the woman has to be amazing for it to be better then being single. Men do what your doing all the time. They let their interest level and the fact that they put women on a pedestal dictate what they put up with. Your thinking about how much you like her and the fact that she is a pretty girl, so she must be telling the truth right? She so beautiful and nice there is no way she is playing you right? Wrong...take a step back and just look at her actions!!!!...that is all a man has to do.
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