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First party we'll both be at...kind of nervous.


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Exactly one year ago on this date and at the same party was the first time i ever talked to my ex and we started to become close. Another party is on, same place, same date, same time etc etc and we'll both be there. I've been no contact with her for a while, she hasn't tried contacting me at all. Im just getting pretty nervous since we would always go to parties together and hang around in our social circle and yeah. I still have some feelings for her which is most likely why im nervous, is my best bet just to ignore our social circle and go talk with other people, i mean i don't want to be around when she is flirting with other guys, should i tried avoid her as much as possible?

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Hey man sorry to hear about this. The girl i was seeing for 3 months broke it off two weeks ago. And my ex ex broke things off last summer. Anyway, both of these are loosely linked enough that they some times attend parties im at.

 

With my ex ex i remember being in your shoes. The tact i adopt is the be happy one, but keep away from her. If you have to speak to her, then be polite and happy but leave it at that.

 

Tbh, i'm pretty vindicative and revengeful given that my ex gf has been an absolute biatch to me since the split and got with this guy i got on well with, so ive started seeing her best mate! Id advise something similar, and honestly if you're going to that party with a new girl, then things are gonna look a whole lot better for you. But then, that's just me operating a tit for tat policy towards a self centred whore ex gf!

 

Best advice is be polite and happy. Have a good time! And exercise self control!

 

good luck man

Edited by Banega100
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