ehu-girl Posted March 26, 2011 Posted March 26, 2011 hi this is my first time here and hope ill get a little help i broke up with my ex back in october last year and when we started going out he was the one who made a move on me. i was submissive all the way, to the point that i donno how to make things happen... there is this guy in my class and i really like him. i havent had butterflies in my stomach in a while and he makes me nervous. we do talk when we see each other in class, and we do text once in a while. but really, thats about it. hes just about to graduate and has work too and is pretty busy with stuff, and as much as i wanna talk to him and see him, i feel bad for taking up his time.. to top it all, he lives pretty far away from where i live i just, kinda, sorta...donno what to do *sigh* we went to watch a game with a bunch of other ppl before, and after the game they invited me to grab a drink with them. but then i had a really early morning the next day i had to leave. kinda makes me feel like i lost my chance any advice on what i should do???
Nexus One Posted March 26, 2011 Posted March 26, 2011 (edited) You could slip him a note in class. Don't make it too long, but indicate in it that you like him. Make sure you put your name on it. If you're serious about this guy you have to move fast, before he leaves, otherwise you WILL miss your chance. Years ago I liked a classmate and she indicated that she liked me back. Not long after that I moved out of town. We lost contact. However, little did I know that I almost ended up in the same city she now lives in. A while ago I came across her, however she now has a boyfriend, but said that "it wasn't serious". That sentence drove me nuts. Her boyfriend is one lucky guy though, because she looks like a clone of Natalie Imbruglia, has a happy and positive personality and is intelligent. Can't help but think of her whenever I see a Natalie Imbruglia video or hear one of her songs. http://bit.ly/hu1r3X Was that a missed chance? I guess things had to unfold like they did, but I do wonder about what would have happened if I did end up in the city she now lives in, because at that time she didn't have a boyfriend. But since she now has a boyfriend I'm over her. But if you don't want to end up wondering about what could have been, then there's only one course of action you can take. Edited March 26, 2011 by Nexus One
Author ehu-girl Posted March 26, 2011 Author Posted March 26, 2011 But if you don't want to end up wondering about what could have been, then there's only one course of action you can take. this is so true. and what i used to live up to before i met my ex. i guess i need to be a little more assertive and less wimpy ><
ImAMac Posted March 26, 2011 Posted March 26, 2011 hi this is my first time here and hope ill get a little help i broke up with my ex back in october last year and when we started going out he was the one who made a move on me. i was submissive all the way, to the point that i donno how to make things happen... there is this guy in my class and i really like him. i havent had butterflies in my stomach in a while and he makes me nervous. we do talk when we see each other in class, and we do text once in a while. but really, thats about it. hes just about to graduate and has work too and is pretty busy with stuff, and as much as i wanna talk to him and see him, i feel bad for taking up his time.. to top it all, he lives pretty far away from where i live i just, kinda, sorta...donno what to do *sigh* we went to watch a game with a bunch of other ppl before, and after the game they invited me to grab a drink with them. but then i had a really early morning the next day i had to leave. kinda makes me feel like i lost my chance any advice on what i should do??? If find myself in an eerily similar situation. Like the only difference is that I didn't break up with someone in October. We talk in class, she gives me so many butterflies I could open a sanctuary in my stomach, she lives like 45 minutes away from me, she is busy all the time and I, too, feel terrible for taking up her time. AND she is graduating next semester. Like this is kinda creepy. I think I'm just going to tell her how I feel; if the feelings aren't mutual, fine, I have no problem continuing as just friends, but if they are, then, obviously, I'd be happy with that. Why wait? What's the sense in waiting when you could (potentially) be happy right now? That's my thinking at this point. But I'm pretty fickle when it comes to relationship decisions so it might be different tomorrow.
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