No_hope Posted March 26, 2011 Posted March 26, 2011 My ex fiance of 2 years broke up with me 6 weeks before our wedding for this girl he JUST met (he cheated on me for a couple months with her though) they started dating when he broke up with me, they dated for 2 1/2 months but had a "thing" for 4 months. Him and I have a child together also. anyways she decided she did not like him after all after 2 1/2 months, broke up with him and moved far away from him, she told him he was bringing her down in life, and he put her life on pause, etc. During their relationship I heard they fought all the time, and she always told him to eff off and stormed home, and they always acted like they hated each other when they were apart. my ex made a comment to a mutual friend about how he doesn't love her, and only says she loves her to make her feel more comfortable to have sex with him. And how she always pisses him off and he was already getting another "b**ch in line" anyways when she broke up with him he went all "depressed" and was saying "what is love?" and saying how she left him in "a lonely cold place" and its been 3 weeks, now he says he is "moving on" and our mutual friend (who told me all this) was like "its about time" why is he so depressed over this girl he used, she used him in return? was it because of rejection? he wanted to dump her? Or maybe because she made him seem so crappy, that's why he is depressed... or maybe because he gave up EVERYTHING (wife, kids, home, etc) for her, and then only a couple months later she blew him off? it's just aggravating how a 2 year + baby gone doesn't faze him one bit, but a 4 month fling does. and she treated him like crap! and said horrible things to him! I treated him good but yeah we had our arguments.
DollyGirl12 Posted March 26, 2011 Posted March 26, 2011 I'm sorry you had to go through this. In my opinion, he was probably still in the honeymoon phase, where everything is new and exciting and thrilling. Sounds like he had the rug ripped out from under his feet. The depression is probably a mix of everything, what he did to you, what she did to him, etc. Possibly he will have a little insight as to how he made you feel. But quite honestly, you deserve better.
Sake Posted March 26, 2011 Posted March 26, 2011 He clearly deserved it. Your ex-fiancée sounds very impulsive and he probably "realized" or was convinced by some of his buddies to not get married and instead continue dating. How old are you two and this is may sound shallow and please don't take is personally but if the other woman is more attractive then it could really explain a lot of things. He's strung up because he got rejected after leaving everything behind. you got it right
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