Jon Morris Posted March 25, 2011 Posted March 25, 2011 My wife of nearly 11 years and I are seperating for a while and taking some time apart to see if the space could help repair the problems in our relationship. Although I do believe the space will be good for both of us and will help us sort out our priorities I still hate the thought of her and me not being together. It's hard, especially when you have 4 kids in the mix. I know that I need to not worry about her right now and give her the freedom she so desperately desires, but it's very, very hard for me not to think about her because I love her so much and the thought of losing her sickens me to my core. We have a standing date about a month from now to go out on a romantic evening out and try to see if we can get the spark back in our relationship. I just dont know if I can go that long without her being around. It just hurts so much right now.
betterdeal Posted March 25, 2011 Posted March 25, 2011 Have you considered contacting Relate to see if they can assist you through this difficult period? http://www.relate.org.uk/home/index.html
marqueemoon4 Posted March 25, 2011 Posted March 25, 2011 at least you still have a glimmer of hope.. its imperative you play this right, try to focus on yourself for the next month and get your head straight. That way when its time to spend a romantic night with your wife you'll be ready. I wish I had the chance you have, so don't blow it.
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