Women, can you find men physically attractive if they have very weak facial features?

[Knittress]

I've generally preferred men with a more sensitive and refined air, actually. Even a tad scrawny.

[OliveOyl]

Wasn't the second picture you posted of a young Michael Caine? He was pretty yummy when he was young.

[Ross PK]

Trust me. Wanting something, in many cases, is better than actually having it. Relationships are not as good as people think they are. The castle might look inviting from the outside but you have to pay quite a bit to warm those cold walls.

 

Buddy, you have so much to experience and to experience all of that you CAN have, you must first let go of this 'do women enjoy men with weak features etc' mentality.

 

First you have sex then when the mysticism of it all is gone, you can have the clarity that comes from tasting something to know if you want to have it again.

 

Also don't make a big deal out of the first time. People have the tendency to put too much stock on it. Just get it out of your system.

 

I'm not sure what you mean about making a big deal out of the fist time. But I know there never will be one anyway.

[Ross PK]

Ross, I remember the picture you posted of yourself when you were asking for people's opinion of your glasses.

 

IMO, there is nothing wrong with your bone structure.

It didn't strike me as weak.

 

I say get a hipper hairstyle, maybe some contacts (because you have nice eyes and the glasses hide those a bit.

Those things will help that Kick-His-Butt-Around-The-School yard look you're worried about.

 

I do have contacts and I'm able to wear them all the time again. My hair isn't usually as long and scruffy looking in that photo you saw. Usually it's shaved really short at the sides and back and a bit longer on top.

 

This style pretty much suits me the best over anything else.

[Dlyrica]

What do you mean you know you'll never have sex?

[Ross PK]

What do you mean you know you'll never have sex?

 

Women aren't sexually attracted to me. And I'm not really interested in seeing a prostitute.

[Dlyrica]

That doesn't mean you'll NEVER have sex...dang, I wish I knew you Ross because I would wingman the crap out of you haha...I'm an awesome wingman you should seriously consider finding a female girl to help you get other girls...works like a charm because other girls don't think "Ew this dude is hitting on me, go away" and you easily break the ice when another girl befriends a girl and introduces you.

[Ross PK]

That doesn't mean you'll NEVER have sex...dang, I wish I knew you Ross because I would wingman the crap out of you haha...I'm an awesome wingman you should seriously consider finding a female girl to help you get other girls...works like a charm because other girls don't think "Ew this dude is hitting on me, go away" and you easily break the ice when another girl befriends a girl and introduces you.

 

If women aren't sexually attracted to me, then it does mean I'll never have sex.

 

Wingmen wouldn't make any difference. If I'm not sexually attractive to women, then I'm not sexually attractive to women.

[Mr.Cairo]

If women aren't sexually attracted to me, then it does mean I'll never have sex.

 

Wingmen wouldn't make any difference. If I'm not sexually attractive to women, then I'm not sexually attractive to women.

 

That's like saying that you'll never drive a car if you lack the money to buy the most expensive of cars. Look, 100 years ago, the men of Europe took their sons to prostitutes when they turned 18 years old. So that the kid would see sex as it is, something that is indeed pleasurable but that it shouldn't make a man have to marry(which was the plan of the Church) to experience.

 

You can easily find very attractive courtesans in Europe who will have sex with you. Don't worry about potential stds. They are cleaner than many women. Some of them only take a client or two per year. Yes, it might be expensive for your wallet but you'll be initiated in the pleasures of sex by very beautiful, young, and very experienced women.

 

Don't feel bad for paying for it. Even the Gym rat has to pay for the sex. Muscles don't come cheap!

[Mr.Cairo]

Women aren't sexually attracted to me. And I'm not really interested in seeing a prostitute.

 

Why not? Can you explain that?

[Mr.Cairo]

I'm not sure what you mean about making a big deal out of the fist time. But I know there never will be one anyway.

 

If you continue with the creation of excuses and barriers to not have sex and to 'why' you are not having sex, then yes. You are never going to have sex. Plenty of average guys have girlfriends. That means that women find them attractive enough to have sex with them. So what's the problem?

[Ross PK]

That's like saying that you'll never drive a car if you lack the money to buy the most expensive of cars. Look, 100 years ago, the men of Europe took their sons to prostitutes when they turned 18 years old. So that the kid would see sex as it is, something that is indeed pleasurable but that it shouldn't make a man have to marry(which was the plan of the Church) to experience.

 

You can easily find very attractive courtesans in Europe who will have sex with you. Don't worry about potential stds. They are cleaner than many women. Some of them only take a client or two per year. Yes, it might be expensive for your wallet but you'll be initiated in the pleasures of sex by very beautiful, young, and very experienced women.

 

Don't feel bad for paying for it. Even the Gym rat has to pay for the sex. Muscles don't come cheap!

 

I wouldn't feel bad about it, it's just that the thought of it really doesn't appeal to me at all for some reason, I'm really sure it'd just feel uncomfortable, awkward and clinical.

[Ross PK]

If you continue with the creation of excuses and barriers to not have sex and to 'why' you are not having sex, then yes. You are never going to have sex. Plenty of average guys have girlfriends. That means that women find them attractive enough to have sex with them. So what's the problem?

 

Got no idea, I was just born different. Maybe I don't produce pheremones, or maybe I produce the wrong ones, or maybe I'm different chemically from other human beings.

[snug.bunny]

How about focusing on other features.....

 

Can you dance, can you lift a small woman over your head, are you intellectual, well-endowed, can you play sports, are you good at **ahem**, are you funny, charming, optimistic, intelligent, witty, kind, strong/big hands, confident, assertive, independent, adventurousness, energetic, daring, strength of character, nice ass, good kisser?

[Mr.Cairo]

I wouldn't feel bad about it, it's just that the thought of it really doesn't appeal to me at all for some reason, I'm really sure it'd just feel uncomfortable, awkward and clinical.

 

You'll feel awkward the first time, with a girlfriend or with someone you've hooked up with. It's natural and it happens to most everyone. Why not doing it with someone who is experienced with that? Many men go to courtesans for their first time. The women understand and know how to make the man feel good about himself and they can make your first time, something to remember in a good light.

[Ross PK]

I'm some of those things and I'm trying to develop some others. For myself though. I really can't see them making any difference to the fact I'm unwanted.

[Mr.Cairo]

Got no idea, I was just born different. Maybe I don't produce pheremones, or maybe I produce the wrong ones, or maybe I'm different chemically from other human beings.

 

Bro, leave behind those shenigans. Yes, there are men who are more attractive than the others and they can select from a variety of beautiful women, but come on. We're not looking for a Princess? Are we?

[Ross PK]

You'll feel awkward the first time, with a girlfriend or with someone you've hooked up with. It's natural and it happens to most everyone. Why not doing it with someone who is experienced with that? Many men go to courtesans for their first time. The women understand and know how to make the man feel good about himself and they can make your first time, something to remember in a good light.

 

Doesn't seem like it'd feel anywhere near as awkward as doing it with a pro. And it really seems like it'd feel clinical as well.

 

I just don't have any desire to see a pro.

[Ross PK]

Bro, leave behind those shenigans. Yes, there are men who are more attractive than the others and they can select from a variety of beautiful women, but come on. We're not looking for a Princess? Are we?

 

I find the majority of women attractive, even ones who would probably be considered a 2/10 by most people.

 

So I'm definatley not just looking for a princess.

[Mr.Cairo]

I find the majority of women attractive, even ones who would probably be considered a 2/10 by most people.

 

So I'm definatley not just looking for a princess.

 

Well, then first of all, you should fix your low self-esteem. After that is accomplished, interact sexually with very experienced women(example, the courtesans). Learn all that you can. With your apprenticeship done, and now that you know that women aren't perfect fairies, you can decide if you want something casual or something serious with a woman.

 

But you have to start the process. You can't spend the rest of your life on relationship forums creating threads on how you can't attract women and when someone gives you advice, you retreat into saying that you are different etc etc.

[Ross PK]

Well, then first of all, you should fix your low self-esteem. After that is accomplished, interact sexually with very experienced women(example, the courtesans). Learn all that you can. With your apprenticeship done, and now that you know that women aren't perfect fairies, you can decide if you want something casual or something serious with a woman.

 

But you have to start the process. You can't spend the rest of your life on relationship forums creating threads on how you can't attract women and when someone gives you advice, you retreat into saying that you are different etc etc.

 

Seeing a pro wont make any difference to anything.

 

I'm already trying to fix my self esteem, that's if it is low. (I'm not really sure what low self esteem is supposed to feel like)

 

I already know what I'd like, I'd like either. They both sound really really appealing.

[SummersEve]

Ross, listen to the Egyptian, really. What you need, son, is to get laid. THAT will give you more confidence with women than anything else in the world. So quit being so special about it and just get it done any way you can is my advice, honestly.

 

I am quite sure, first of all, that your belief that you can't get a woman is ridiculous. The ugliest, meanest, stupidest, fattest, craziest, weirdest, poorest and stinkiest people in the world get married, and even some poor souls with all of the above. You have simply missed out on the game somewhere along the line and it has grown into this big mental block.

 

I think you need to get on with your life. HOW you do it is NOT important. Go to the hooker this instant. Or, don't want to, fine, then sign up on a dating site. List that you are a 35 year old male virgin who will consider all female offers to have sex. I bet you will get many offers and your life will be much different a week from now. Let me tell you something, there are many nasty ladies out there who would love the event of it all. She, hooker (if told) or internet lady, will know the deal. You don't have to do anything but show up and she will handle the rest.

 

Just do it.

Edited March 28, 2011 by SummersEve