randy90631 Posted March 25, 2011 Posted March 25, 2011 My GF isn't comfortable having sex with me while my brother/house mate is around the house. He's only gone on Friday nights on a regular basis. I don't want to just plan our dates on Friday's cuz that the only night I can have sex. We've been dating for 5 months and her preference is that we see each other once a week so she things don't get too familiar. I agree with that part of our relationship. So I have random date nights I asked my brother if I can have the house to myself. He said is was bad request, because I would be asking him to inconvience himself so I can have sex with my GF. I know I would do it for him if he asked me. Obviously I need to get my own apartment, but that's not till next year. What the hell can I do. Intimacy is important in a relationship and my brother is making things difficult. The only thing I can think of is when my brother is gone, ask my GF over to hangout.
blackmagik Posted March 25, 2011 Posted March 25, 2011 What is her reason for not wanting to be intimate with someone else in the house? That just seems like a silly reason to not want have sex with you. Unless she likes to get loud in bed or something like that, which would make sense why she wouldn't want other people around.
Author randy90631 Posted March 25, 2011 Author Posted March 25, 2011 Yeah, she is very noisy, and the walls of the house are paper thin.
blackmagik Posted March 25, 2011 Posted March 25, 2011 Do a little role playing then. Tell her you will only do it harder if she doesn't quiet down. It could end up being pretty hot. I could come up with endless scenarios for this haha.
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