brown03 Posted March 24, 2011 Posted March 24, 2011 Do abortions make it hard for the women to look at the father of that kid after? Will this abortion change how she looks at me at all and can we get past that? My girlfriend and I are taking a break to figure everything out and to let her heal and stuff and she is afraid of evreything changing after because it will make her see me differently. Is this true?
jquest1280 Posted March 25, 2011 Posted March 25, 2011 I know of a girl who had more than one abortion and still went with her bf after. Years after, she broke it off for other reasons. I suspect that abortion is handled differently by individuals, so you can't really go by my example. Sorry I can't be of more help. I just wanted you to know someone in cyberspace empathizes.
angelboots Posted March 26, 2011 Posted March 26, 2011 I have had one. I felt guilt and grief. He felt guilt and grief, neither of us could communicate how we were feeling to each other and it slowly poisoned our relationship. What may have made a difference would have been grief counselling. Abortion is a big life changing thing. Be there for her as much as you can, be honest with each other about how you both feel and you might have more success with keeping things together. Hardship can make strong couples stronger, but weaker couples not so much. good luck x
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