PDPullmn612 Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 Hey guys, Let me start out by saying, date or no date, it doesn't matter to me. I'm just curious as to what you guys would consider it. Some people I talk to say its a date and others say its not. I personally don't believe it is... About 2 weeks ago I met up with a girl that I had not seen in about 15. years and became quickly interested in her. She's one of my ex's best friends. There is a whole other story behind that, but to make a long story short, this same ex and one of my good friends started dating about 7 months ago. Anyway, we met up for drinks once and then again on St. Patrick's Day along with a few other friends. While we were out on St. Patrick's Day I began to flirt with her a lot and she seemed to be responding to it very well (one of my friends confirmed the next day that she seemed to be into it). Now I asked her out to dinner earlier this week and she said yes. I understand that it could be a friendly dinner, but with all the flirting that went on and such, is it possible that it could be considered a date? Again, its make no difference to me if it is a "date" or not. Just curious is all Let me know what you guys think! Thanks!
SweetDaphne Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 I'd call it a date. So go have fun and if everything seems to go right and you're in the mood lean in for a kiss at the right moment. If she kisses back you know your answer. :-)
Author PDPullmn612 Posted March 23, 2011 Author Posted March 23, 2011 SweetDaphne, thats exactly my plan. I'll gauge the situation as the night goes on and if I feel like things are going well I'll give try going for a kiss.
Author PDPullmn612 Posted March 25, 2011 Author Posted March 25, 2011 Well guys, so much for a date. Not that its a big deal, but she didn't consider it a date. Long story short, I basically just let her know that I'm interested in her, nothing more. She was cool with it but said that she didn't think we could have anything more than a friendship, but that she thinks I'm a cool guy and that she likes spending time with me. I've dated enough to know that this is a nice way of just telling me it ain't gonna happen. So...since I'm not in to deep with her in terms of my feelings for her I plan on still spending time with her. If it becomes to hard to hang out with her because my feelings grow, then I'll just tell her and be on my way.
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