baby_doll_23 Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 So here goes, I've been with my boyfriend the past two years we definetly have our ups and down as does every relationship. Every now and again he will have his tempertantrums because he is bi polar. He throws stuff around and totally goes off the deep end. It gets worse when he drinks but wont take medication at all becuase he believes this is not a problem and is my fault. We have been living together since we got together, He is a good man when he isnt flying over the edge but extremly conceited. He does love me a lot, he takes care of me and makes sure I have everything I need. My mom loves him and wants me to marry him. I normally just brush it off when he is being mean and disrespectful, but recently I have been putting my foot down where normally I wouldnt. We recently started hanging out with his buddies they are very nice to me, they dont like how my boyfriend treats me at all. Saying I deserve better they watched as he grabbed other girls asses right in front of me when he got mad at the bar he spilled his drink all over me on purpose it was a full bottle of gatorade that he dumped on me. I love my boyfriend but im starting to see that this is unnacceptable. I do everything for my boyfriend I cook and clean the house do his laundry daily, I do things for him that no girl would do, getting all dressed up for him cause he tells me too,. His friends think he is very disrespectful to me treating me as nothing but a trophy, and piece of meat. His friends are very sad to see this, his friend is now falling for me he is so sweet to me. He says he wishes he could just take me away from all this and he would go to hell and back to have me. I love my boyfriend dont get me wrong but I never get that kind of attention I do from my boyfriend. It makes me feel cared about his friend always texts me to make sure how I am doing and I text back. Its wrong of me to be texting him back but he makes me feel cared about.. It has left me confused and not knowing what to do. His other friend recently left his girl and wants to steal me away too. I dont know how to comprehend all this. I tried talking to my mom about this and she flipped. I love my boyfriend and I have gone through hell and back to make it work. But I have two other guys I am friends with care about me want them for themselves but I dont know how to tell them or what to think. I feel like im in a stupid triangle with three guys pulling my arms different directions. They were my friends but they turned out they cared too much and now I dont know what to do. Please give me some advice.
Author baby_doll_23 Posted March 23, 2011 Author Posted March 23, 2011 If it helps im twenty three and his fiends have tried telling him to stop treating ur girl like ****
Kindaconfused_77 Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 For starters I think you already know that regardless of what your mom says the relationship with your bf is toxic, abusive and does not have a future for you because it is clearly making you unhappy. So prioritise your decisions - first decide how you want to solve the issues pending with your bf by breaking up or ending the relationship or getting him to sort his issues if he truly does care. the rest will sort itself out, if you are still with your bf and he is working on bettering himself for the sake of your relationship then the advances of your friends will be ignored. Or you end things with your bf, once you are single you can decide with a clear head whT you feel and whT you want to do but regardless of all this the issue you have to deal with first and foremost of the relationship you currently have with your bf.
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