raquelmonroe Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 So my ex and i broke up approx 2 months ago with me being the dumpee. We have always been on and off and finally one of our arguments went too far with him asking for things back, calling the cops on me over gifts, him saying he wanted nothing to do with me, ect. After leaving my house he sent me a text saying "hope you're happy, you got what you wanted". I have maintained no contact since that day and have been doing my best to move on. After all this had happpened be immediately blocked me on facebook. Sometime last week around 1 am i receive a text from him. All the text said was "wtf? When did u try and contact me?" To which i never responded to because i hadn't tried contacting him. I also noticed he lifted the block off me on facebook and also made his page public for everyone to see. Im usually the one to run back to him, write him online or text back immediately when he text me but not this time. He's the type who thinks if i show no emotion i don't care. What do you think his issue is? Is he just throwing me breadcrumbs? All his pictures are of him partying when he usually loves to stay at home.
flitzanu Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 um, he called the cops on you, and hasn't actually said a word to you other than "wtf, did you try to contact me??" maybe i'm missing how that's breadcrumbs since he isn't trying to interact with you.
radiodarcy Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 um, he called the cops on you, and hasn't actually said a word to you other than "wtf, did you try to contact me??" maybe i'm missing how that's breadcrumbs since he isn't trying to interact with you. i agree. it sounds to me like he's baiting you in an effort to play games; not throwing you bread crumbs. you did the right thing in not responding. just keep doing NC and don't pay any attention to him.
Author raquelmonroe Posted March 23, 2011 Author Posted March 23, 2011 Maybe I used the term breadcrumbs in the wrong sense..bait probably would have been a better term but YES it seems to me as if he's just trying to play games with me which is why i haven't responded. I just don't see the point of this if he's done fo good but i guess he needs an ego boost!
radiodarcy Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 yeah - - "breadcrumbs" are usually innocuous messages like "i miss you"; "how's it going" etc that dumpers send as a way of putting out feelers to see if you still have feelings for them. it doesn't necessarily mean they want you back, mind you. it just means they want to know they're missed or it could just be curiosity. but your ex's behavior is way out of line and comes across as extremely immature. good for you for not playing into it!
lolo1234 Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 Hmmm sounds like he just wanted to start a fight with you. And you were the better person for not giving in. Continue with NC girlfriend, this guy sounds like he doesn't even deserve a look towards his way from you. LOL
Author raquelmonroe Posted March 23, 2011 Author Posted March 23, 2011 thanks you guys!! when he unblocked me off facebook i caught myself feeding into it esp since he made his page public (which he never does) and posted public albums of him partying with his immature friends at parties since his roommates a dj. it made me so upset at first bc he looked like he was having the time of his life without me! i have since blocked him myself so im no longer tempted by his immature games..and to think he's going to be 28 in july haha
BlindRage Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 he's going to be 28 in july haha He sounds like a joke.
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