marqueemoon4 Posted March 24, 2011 Posted March 24, 2011 wgw making the world go right as much as he can. i'm glad you're on here, you have a great attitude.
Author worldgonewrong Posted March 25, 2011 Author Posted March 25, 2011 wgw making the world go right as much as he can. i'm glad you're on here, you have a great attitude. Thanks, my man!
dreamingoftigers Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 dreamingoftigers: I frickin' LOVE your post! YES! (You have a lot of thoughtful insight actually; I've gone back & re-read many of your posts. You're very perceptive.) New cologone, new clothes, some new habits. I did all of those. Now at the time I did them largely for me, but the effects were dramatic. Very entertaining post DOT, how about an encore! Finally some light hearted discussions in this dreary place. Thank you very much guys, will work on an exciting encore in the coming weeks LOL! I read the book but my marriage was past the point of no return. If I had an inkling as to what was going to happen say a couple months earlier it may have helped. Usually once a woman moves out and is involved with another man the gig is up. I know, that sucks. Women tend to stay until they exhaust themselves of nagging, I kid you not. I wanted to bump this thread up because I started seeing little things that worked with my husband. For instance, one morning I called around 11 am. He really appreciated that, so I repeated it. decent effect. Just little positive changes allow me a little more wiggle room if I am otherwise giving him space.
CrazyBeautiful Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 I have read the book and, yes, it is very interesting. It reflects the harsh realities of marriage and the ups-and-downs if one goes through a divorce. It teaches people how to divorce when they think they are not capable (or maybe, no guts) to take such bold moves. But, of course, when making decisions...we have to be on our own. It is not because it is what the book says, but because this is how you feel and the marriage is not working anymore.
Author worldgonewrong Posted March 30, 2011 Author Posted March 30, 2011 I have read the book and, yes, it is very interesting. It reflects the harsh realities of marriage and the ups-and-downs if one goes through a divorce. It teaches people how to divorce when they think they are not capable (or maybe, no guts) to take such bold moves. But, of course, when making decisions...we have to be on our own. It is not because it is what the book says, but because this is how you feel and the marriage is not working anymore. Get the f*ck off my thread, you babbling spam-bot.
marqueemoon4 Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 Get the f*ck off my thread, you babbling spam-bot. they're showing up all over the place, eh? I can see you're reverting to stage 2-- PISSED.
Author worldgonewrong Posted March 30, 2011 Author Posted March 30, 2011 they're showing up all over the place, eh? I can see you're reverting to stage 2-- PISSED. hahaha, nah, just the general roller-coaster of feelings. this morning I felt incredibly sad, actually. and yeah, there's a bit of angry in there, too.
Yasuandio Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 WGW, sometimes anger is pain in disguise. Be totally cool, don't let it show.
dreamingoftigers Posted March 30, 2011 Posted March 30, 2011 I will be so irritated if a porn spam shows up on one of my threads! LOL, right in the middle of talking about my husband's porn addiction. I haven't read anything in the book about "how to divorce" either. I found the coaches to be really wonderful off of the website. They help apply the principles in the book to your own situation. They really help give an outside perspective. Back to the book... I think that the parts where it talks about nagging have been the most helpful so far.
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