joshextreme Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 So my really close friend today told me to text my ex because she really wanted to talk. I thought "oh she must be too nervous since we haven't talked in 10 days." So I decided to break NC since my friend said I should. My ex texted me to tell me that she is going to prom with her ex(guy she dated before me). This hurt so me so badly. I thought that my friend urging me to text her was a sign of good news. My friend knew that I had been having a real hard time with this break up but since starting NC I had been feeling better. Last few texts that went between us were her: "to think ive been missing you.. whatever josh" me: "why do you do this to me... <her name> you know i do miss you a lot but you've moved on and im trying to. either let me move on or talk to me. either way its a win for you.." her: "i dont want it to be a win for me.. i want u to be able to move on. but idk how not being able to wave or show any acknowledgment gets in the way of that" me: "because thats what friends do. i refuse to settle for anything less than what i once had. until you realize that, you know where to reach me." her: "fine. goodbye josh" For some reason I still feel like I have a chance but she already has a date so it sucks. But then again she was ruthless enough to flat out tell me she had a date even though she knows I'm still in love with her. Starting now I'm back up on NC. Not for her now but for me. What do you guys think?
Art_Critic Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 What do you guys think? That you should NOT have texted your ex... NC stands for NO CONTACT, when you text them you are contacting them..
Author joshextreme Posted March 23, 2011 Author Posted March 23, 2011 That you should NOT have texted your ex... NC stands for NO CONTACT, when you text them you are contacting them.. They way my friend was saying things it was like things had changed. I wanted her back so badly. But I learned now.
Author joshextreme Posted March 23, 2011 Author Posted March 23, 2011 I don't want people to criticize me either for breaking NC. My friend assured me everything would be alright. I was under the assumption everything was going to be alright. I got played real bad but it's whatever now.
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