tommy.is.my.name Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 (edited) I keep hearing about crumbs. I seem to be dealing with the opposite. She broke up with me one month and eight days ago. Because she in Europe till July. Anyway we ended on good terms. She said she didn't want us to end badly because she still loved me. I then went nc for the first 3 weeks without mentioning it to her. Third week nc and she deletes me from Facebook. I send her a message asking why. She says out of sight out of mind (for her or me? I didn't ask) Anyway we have a about a week of LC. I don't ask her to add me again on Facebook. I then go nc again. It was mardi gras I was in new Orleans and I was trying to heal. So I've been nc for 16 days but I need to get our old landlords number from her because im now in Austin for work. Yesterday I send an email telling her I'm in Austin and nred the number. Nothing more nothing less. Today I'm on Skype and see that she just blocked me. Two seconds later I get an email with the landlords number. And then my ex asks me to let her know how Austin is . I ask her why she just blocked me on Skype, especially now after being broken up for more than a month. And I haven't been blowing her up or sending her messages. She responds " I know. My choice." WTF? So I send another email saying that I don't understand, I thought dhe didn't want us to end badly but now it seems she is taking the steps to end us badly. In a moment of grief and weakness I text her best friend back in Honolulu (where we lived together and moved from in December) and ask if I can talk to her about the breakup between my ex and i. She says sure she will be happy to talk to me, as we were friends too. We are supposed to talk tomorrow. Now I haven't spoken about the breakup with any of our friends. Will it be a bad move to do so tomorrow? Also, what the heck is up with the opposite of crumbs I'm experiencing. It's like she is slowly erasing me....I should have just blocked her on everything after the breakup but I was holding out hope for when she gets back from Europe. Some guidance please everyone. Edited March 23, 2011 by tommy.is.my.name
Call Me Al Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 Sounds like shes just choosing to go no contact. Nothing to make of it, really. Just let it be.
Author tommy.is.my.name Posted March 23, 2011 Author Posted March 23, 2011 Thanks Al I'm trying to not get worked up. I mean, I've handled the breakup well. The only time I pleaded with her to reconsider was immediately after she broke up with me. And I only continued with that for about an hour. Haven't asked for anything since the breakup. Do I speak with her best friend today?
Frank13 Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 The opposite of breadcrumbs is them asking you to come back, not deleting you from Facebook. Of all the reasons to break contact, asking them why they deleted you from Facebook has to be one of the lamest ones. Plus it had the even worse affect of letting her know you are still pining for her by checking her FB.
Author tommy.is.my.name Posted March 24, 2011 Author Posted March 24, 2011 Well frank13 I guess that makes me lame buddy.
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