Lionblue92 Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 SOOOO. my ex, that i mentioned before that i broke up with about two weeks ago, he was with his friend and i guess they decided they wanted to be funny and childish. Somebody called me from his phone, and left a voicemail like, "hey baby how u been dis baby daddy im over here havin some nasty ass sex ill-ill call you back." i just knew it was his friend i could tell by his voice even tho he was disguising it. ....and this ex is someone ive made no contact with since the break-up. so i deleted him off my facebook immediately and his friend. then about 35 minutes later, i guess one of them realized they were deleted. so my ex tries calling me, i didnt answer. and then his friend texted me right after saying "that was me being childish calling you from __ phone." lmbo. i did not respond to any of it and dont plan to.didnt even acknowledge the brotha with a response! even if my ex didnt know he was calling me--..this willl just teach him another lesson of not letting OTER PPL (like how our relationship ended) interfere with wat hes doing....first he lost me, now this. double wammy. wat is everyone's thoughts on this?
depplover_1980 Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 I like this story, it made me chuckle. Well unless you're just putting on a brave face (are you?) then I would say I'd throw myself a little party that you'd learnt a good lesson. That you want a man, not a boy. Also give yourself a pat on the back for having some self esteem and being calm. Well done girl.
Author Lionblue92 Posted March 23, 2011 Author Posted March 23, 2011 Well i dont know what you mean by brave face, its not as if it hurt for him to do that i thought of it just like you...random, confusing, funny and childish. And I really dont see any point in dignifying smomething as childish as that..and I feel pretty good in the fact that he has to be feelin pretty..salty. i would if i were on his end. lol. and personally if it already happened whether or not his friend did it or him too, i think i would have left it at that without making a second call..tht would keep me a lil dignity. but i guess if i cared i would have tried to call me again too. idk but its all pretty funny!
depplover_1980 Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 Nah I was just checking you're ok about breaking up with him. I think the behaviour is bizarre, but as I said I did laugh when I read the post. You have a good attitude.
Author Lionblue92 Posted March 23, 2011 Author Posted March 23, 2011 lol. yeah, thank you. 'boys' are a trip. too often we mistake them for men :/ ...who are tript too. its hard to know who your really deaing with until they mess up. But its always nice when the signs are shown to you up-front..before getting further involved. Thats a blessing.
collegeguy_24 Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 first he lost me, now this. double wammy. Weren't you the one who posted that after an argument you dumped him over FB by changing your status and letting him figure it out?
Author Lionblue92 Posted March 23, 2011 Author Posted March 23, 2011 I dumped him after his reaction was...."I cant believe you right now, dont talk to me for awhile. bye" to something he could have handled better.. then yeah i went single over the book after that text. i had that discussion with ppl, maybe you too about whether or not that was a break up text or not but even tho it wasnt i felt it disrespectful to respond the way he did. so i responded the way i did.. but oh well that was done
collegeguy_24 Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 He may have sent the wrong text, but that certainly wans't a break up text, but thats already done and gone, so no use thinking about it. (I know I am a bit hypocritical in that statement, considering how long after my breakup with my ex I still think about it.) But into your current issue, are you trying to maintain NC, for what purpose exactly? To win him back, or to just move on?
Author Lionblue92 Posted March 23, 2011 Author Posted March 23, 2011 No to either...I did no contact because I didnt feel that there was any reason for me to contact him. It was not to win him back. But Moving on is easier with no contact in some cases. But in maintaining no contact with him, if he were to have reached out directly in a how r u doing, how u been, i miss u, kind of way...(something other than letting his friend play with his phone) ..i would have gladly talked to him. I just didnt see any point in me..contacting him at that time
Author Lionblue92 Posted March 23, 2011 Author Posted March 23, 2011 And apparently by him trying to call, theres a chance that he didnt know his friend called me on some type of sh*t like that. cause i guess he was calling a second time to say that wasnt him, following the text from his friend. So with that said its cool tat i deleted him off my facebook right? and didnt give a response to him even after the second phone call?
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