raquelmonroe Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 hi everyone! sorry for the long post but this is really bugging me and i need some insight.. anyway, my ex and i broke up february 1st. we have been together for two years on and off. we were seperated for three weeks upon talking again but instead of working on our issues we jumped right back into everything. we were together for a week and everything was perfectly fine between us. i started thinking about our unresolved issues which in turn caused an arguement. i had gotten so annoyed with him that i didnt want to answer his calls but he kept calling so we were basically arguing through text message. next thing i know he shows up at my mothers house and right when i step out the door he starts screaming non stop. he told me he wanted nothing to do with me, calling me a complete basket case, among other things. he also began asking for a computer back that he had put together for me saying he was going to call the cops if i didnt give it back. all this time im telling him to leave and im fine with his decision but he wont. this went on for two hours with me asking him to leave, him not listening, me starting to drink wine to calm my nerves, and finally me throwing the computer out so he'll get the hell away from me. my cell phone had flew with the computer which he got a hold of and refused to give back. my family finally came out to see what was going on and my ex kindly handed over my cell as if he was trying to do that the whole time. in trying to get my phone back, he was scratched by accident on his arm. he then began screaming about how i never forget things and all this crap. after he left he sent me a text saying "hope youre happy, you got what you wanted" i told him to act his age (he's going to be 28) and to leave me be. i later receive a phone call from the authorities bc i guess he had called them on me and later that night we had gotten in contact and he said he was going to press charges. once he was home, he took it upon himself to write two of my gf's, telling them he was done for good. he had blocked me on facebook and i have not tried contacting him once. the other day around midnight i receive a text message from him saying "wtf? when did you try and contact me?" which i didnt reply to because im trying to keep NC atleast for 2 months and now im noticing that im no longer blocked off facebook bc we have eight mutual friends and that his page is open which never happens. sorry for the long post but what do you think his deal is? he posted some photo album of him going out partying as well thats made public which is also something he never does. i just know you have to go through settings in order to unblock someone so i just dont understand why hed even bother.
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