lolo1234 Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 NC Roll Call for March 22nd. This is a roll call for anyone currently doing NC. I thought it could be a way for us to support each other and let folks know how we're doing. It seems like every other post is about NC on here. LOL I am 11 days into NC. We broke up 47 days ago. Although we haven't seen each other since ... I initiate contact a few times via text to which his response was to call me. Reason I'm doing NC: I need to get over this guy. Our relationship hurt my self-esteem. Everytime I've talked to him I've felt like I've taken a few steps back in healing. I have no plans of getting back together with him anymore. My purpose of NC is for myself only ... I need to look out for my own emotional health right now.
Jdw_Icequeen Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 Hi.. Thought I might aswell join you.. 27 days NC here have my ups and downs.. He pretty much abandoned me my children and his son. So I cut contact 27 days ago. There were alot of other things involved but I guess no reason to dive into all that. My purpose of NC is also to heal myself. At first I won't lie I was hoping he would contact me and show how much he cared. I guess in reality by not contacting me he did show how much he cared.. I have my ups and downs on this so far, but I know I won't be contacting him even though we have a son together. If you want to look back on my last NC thread I can post it. I still feel bad miss him alot think about him alot. Somtimes my thoughts and feelings are very overwhelming. If he contacts me I haven't decided if I will respond yet because we have a child involved. I guess it depends how I feel at the time. Right now I am just doing my best to accept and be ok with the fact I will never see or speak to him again.. Today I feel really good though and am thinking more about the future of where my life is going instead of where I have been. So heres to another 27 days of NC.. Just keep on keepin on one day at a time.
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