LeMeow Posted April 2, 2004 Posted April 2, 2004 HELP....My boyfriend's parents are fighting like cats and dogs and my boyfriend can't concentrate on anything else! I am afraid that he will have less time and energy for me. I am TRYING to be there for him, but it's just not the same sometimes because our conversations are not that fun anymore. Is it worth staying in the relationship? I am afraid he will try and sabotage the relationship even though i have told him i am aware of this. He says he would understand if I broke up with him because he thinks that it is unfair for me to stay. But i told him to stop talking like that because life is unfair! so what?!? Do you think he is trying to get me to break up with him first to not feel so guilty? But when i asked him if he wanted to break up with me repeatedly to make sure he was being honest, he seemed honest when he said that he genuinely did not want to break up. So should i believe him? What can i do or say to save the relationship? And if his parents' marital strife continues, will he break up with me over it? HELP ME!!!
moimeme Posted April 2, 2004 Posted April 2, 2004 Take it easy. He said he doesn't want to break up. Believe him.
Mjfru Posted April 2, 2004 Posted April 2, 2004 Me and my gf have been going through a really bumpy road lately as well. I sometimes have told her that I feel like we are going to break up and stuff like that, and I feel like her feelings for me are much less than mine for her. When I ask her if she wants to break up for good, she tells me, "no of coarse not, cmon why would you say that" but i don't know what to think sometimes. But when I truly look into my heart I know that she still loves me. I guess really my advice to you would be to just let things run their coarse for a little longer. You may see better if he does really want to stick with you, or not. My opinion of your situation is that I think he is just really stressed out and he does really want to be with you.
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