Beaver Bob Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 My wife knows I filed for divorce, it was a joint decision. She's been in tears and I've done the 180 so I'm good. Like I said it was a joint decision, I can't move forward w/o some kind of reassurance she won't cheat again, she hasn't complied w/ MC, she cancels appointments w/o telling me, she doesn't do anything except complain. Now her problem w/ me is- and you might want to sit down...."our whole lives she told me what she wanted when she wanted it, if I spoke up she'd put me in my place, (her words)I didn't have a leg to stand on, now that she's made a mistake she bound to listening to me, I no longer trust her w/ all our affairs, I've stepped up and want to help (her major complaint why she cheated is I was never helping her, she had to do everything). I have done everything she's asked to make things better and now for this, what she's asked for is the reason she won't stay married w/ me. BB
Owl Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 Sounds to me like darned if you do, darned if you don't. Tell her she can blame you all that she wants to for whatever it is that she feels you did wrong...but at the end of the day, you filed for divorce because she destroyed your trust in her with her cheating and refusal to fix things. She can accept it or not, but it's where you're at. That's what it sounds like to me at least. Take care of you at this point.
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