tb24 Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 Sorry this is long... Backstory: This girl comes up to me in the pub on new years eve. Apparently I went to school with her (7 years ago...), my friends knew her at least but I had no memory of her. She seemed to remember me. We flirted a bit but at that point, 1) I was a rather drunk (Hey it was new years!) and 2) I was still hung up on my ex and didn't really have any interest in her. About a month ago, I saw her again. She was out with a male and female friend. We get chatting and I end up flirting with and kissing her friend (The female one ). It would have gone further but she managed to really put me off by telling me she had genital warts and then stopped talking to me when I declined to take her home. Anyway, this saturday night, her and her friend are out. The girl (alone) comes over to me smiling and sits down with me and my friend. We chat a little and she invites us over to sit with them. Her friend is civil with me but obviously uninterested since I'd turned her down the last time. I get chatting to the girl again and realise that she's rather nice and fun. The last time I'd spent most of the time with her friend so hadn't had much of a conversation with her alone. Unfortunately, she had to leave. Where do I go from here? I think she likes me (?) or at least she did but I might have been friend zoned by now. Opinions? I have no idea how to make a move on a girl I've known for 4 months, even if I haven't spoken with her *that* much. How can I do it without it seeming odd, since at this point I've not really shown any level of interest beyond just being friendly. Cheers!
quynyth Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 Don't give up. As long as the world does not end we still have a chance for every girl. 10 key typing test
WillSingForFood Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 The fact that you almost took her friend home not too long ago would be enough to make you someone that she has no interest in because of that. Should you give up? No. I think that you should still go after her and see if she wants to go out on a date sometime and see where it could lead to. Just be careful since she might not see you in the same light that she may have originally before you made out with her friend.
Author tb24 Posted March 23, 2011 Author Posted March 23, 2011 The fact that you almost took her friend home not too long ago would be enough to make you someone that she has no interest in because of that. Well she certainly doesn't dislike me. Hence coming over to chat the next time she saw me. She came over to me flirted a little and invited me and my friend over to sit with them. She also didn't act at all interested in my friend (Who's married anyway...). Which is why I think she's still interested. I will go after her, next time i see her She seems to be in that pub fairly often so I'll see I'll try to judge her interest level better
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