sweetpeach35 Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 i feel like we are in two diffrent worlds . i come home at night from work got to bed hes up all night plays xbox , i get up hes crawling into bed , yes no job . we talked about that too . told him hes ruuning out of time . im not having another rough winter on one income. i have tryed to sit down and talk to him like hes a little boy. but that doesnt work either .AND YES I FEEL DISCONNECTED . the sex is gone .he wants me to do all the work , get dressed up to ..do him . that got old fast so now we do nothing . im at my end of rope. im young 35 married 4 years been togather 7 yrs no children . any advice .
lday Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 i'm sorry to hear this. i would not be able to stomach all the lazing around. he's either got to man up or get out. if i have to work so hard to support a man who is able-bodied and therefore able to work, i'd rather go single! the money supporting the 'big kid' can go to savings or just little things that make me happy. i know it is very easy for third parties to say dump him! just like a lot of posters judge or force their views on others... just do what is best for you. i realize that life is too short to worry, stress and be unhappy over someone. i wish you strength and happiness
Author sweetpeach35 Posted March 22, 2011 Author Posted March 22, 2011 i'm sorry to hear this. i would not be able to stomach all the lazing around. he's either got to man up or get out. if i have to work so hard to support a man who is able-bodied and therefore able to work, i'd rather go single! the money supporting the 'big kid' can go to savings or just little things that make me happy. i know it is very easy for third parties to say dump him! just like a lot of posters judge or force their views on others... just do what is best for you. i realize that life is too short to worry, stress and be unhappy over someone. i wish you strength and happiness i think that all the time ,life is short and im not going to sit around waitn g to be happy , men wounder why women pack there **** up and just leave . ty so much for the input
BlindRage Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 i think that all the time ,life is short and im not going to sit around waitn g to be happy , men wounder why women pack there **** up and just leave . ty so much for the input Do whatever makes you happy. Life is short and it just gets shorter by the day.
What_Next Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 No children, well I supposed if there is a siliver lining, that might be it. Why isn't he working? Is there a valid reason for it?
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