Sake Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 (edited) and she loved me too, yet somewhere down the line we drifted apart. We were eachother's first true love and we were together for 3 years - She was 14 when we started dating and 18 when she decided to end it (I'm a year older). She always had a problem fitting in because of her awkwardness but she was a gorgeous girl and I honestly placed her deep inside my heart, she always doubted herself but I helped spread her wings and in a way we helped each other to get through highschool. She did have a friend that would always try to corrupt her - she's the "evil best friend" type of girl that would always want us to break us up. Anyways, little over a month after we broke up she started dating an older guy (21) he has money and pays for everything, has a car, a condo and everything to be honest. He does drink and smoke a lot which she dislikes and he isn't that good looking but I guess none of that matters to her. I went through all of the phases of begging and pleading and even biking to her house (20 miles away). She's dating an uptown boy which seems to be the norm because she is an uptown girl, I'm a poor downtown boy that's trying to make it in the world.. it's been 9 months to this very day since she ended it and on the fourth of next month it's going to be their 8 month anniversary. Have I lost her forever..? I guess you can say I spread her wings and she just flew away. - Sorry for the long read Edited March 22, 2011 by Sake
VJohnson32 Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 I feel your pain but wow its been 8 months already since she broke up with you. You should have used that time for yourself and to heal instead of sitting around and waiting for her to come back. Has she made any contact? If she hasnt im afraid shes way gone... Plus you still very young and you sound like a great guy, money got nothing to do with finding a nice girl... just let her go and enjoy your life. Id rather ride a bicycle than drive a car most times
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