EmperorR Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 (edited) Just on facebook, I have her blocked and deleted my phone number changed email changed, go to my friends profile and poof there she is in some club picture UGH, got off facebook, went over to my moms house, she asked me to get her phone upstairs and ugh there is a text from my ex on the phone talking about her she has a job interview etc and everything is going good UGH. It's like I can't get away im like 30 days NC yet I have setbacks like these, I even went online to pof and guess who clicked my profile yep the same day I created it. it's like i Can't get away, I know shes on my mom, brother in law and sister facebook and they all talk to her behind my back because they see "Good in her" . I know for sure she cheated on me as I have a keylogger on my pc and got into her email (don't judge me) , but my family became attached to her and her son( my sister and husband are god parents) I'm sick of it, it's like they chose her over own family. I told myself after being hosed by my ex fiance, and then my best friend at the time who i dated after NO more being nice yet i fell yet again, this time i wasn't a doormat and kept my eyes up yet still I ended up getting hosed, went straight NC, but it didn't work as every weekend she was at church with her kid, this went on for a year her acting like everything was great between us till i finally said no more and blocked deleted and told her to get lost and stop contacting my family but noooooooooooooo. I'm almost to the point in telling my familiy its me or her. It's been a over a year since we broke up, over like 8 months since i even had any physical contact with her, i've seen her once in like 10 months yet UGh why does she still have this semi effect on me I almost contacted my ex fiance who i havent spoken to in 3 years because i feel nothing for her and maybe hating her again will take my mind off this ex End RANT Edited March 22, 2011 by EmperorR
0hpenelope Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 I think it's because you're not totally healed yet. I sympathize with your feelings that your family isn't respecting your boundaries, but the way I see it, they're treating her as their friend, too. At this point, it's got nothing to do with you and unfortunately for you, they like her as a person. I know how you feel. I've been there. One day at a time, brother. You get further away from her everyday. I'd be more concerned if they're coercing you to be friends with her. That's disrespectful.
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