peacemaker123 Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 Long story short, old flame texted and asked me giving him a chance after years of no contact. I'm hesitated due to the awful experience dealing with him and his ex from the past. However, I did love him. I don't want to be regretted in the future. Or at least, make a closure which should have been done years ago, and make peace with him. So both of us can move on. Hence, I decide to give it a shot and use his own meth against him (not in a negative, offensive way). So there go the draft of my respond: Before we have any further communication directly or indirectly, you need to make a very small and easy effort to persuade me that you are sincere. SHOW ME THE PAPERS: Paper 1: sign an agreement with one attorney as witness to prove that your pervious harassment complain against me at XXPD in 2006 was not under your own will. And you won't use it against me in any further future. Paper 2: a legal document from local courthouse to prove that you are single currently. We will start from there when I receive both papers from your attorney. Otherwise, take care and you have a good life! Since English isn't my first language and I don't want to be rude or ridiculous. Please give me some feedback about my draft before I send it out. Many thanks!
0hpenelope Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 Uh... what? What is the purpose of these legal moves, he harassed you? I just wanted to clarify not because English isn't your first language (your English is fine to me), but because it sounds like you want him back, even though he harassed you? Or is this all tongue-in-cheek, meaning you're making sure in an humorously exaggerated way that he's sincere in wanting to get back together with you? Finally: asked me giving him a chance after years of no contact I laugh at him. Welcome to LS and I hope you find the help you're looking for.
Author peacemaker123 Posted March 23, 2011 Author Posted March 23, 2011 Thanks a lot! I was serious, now you made it looks sarcasm! You probably save my life! I obiviously need to fix it!
SingVoice Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 Yeah this whole thing sounds CRAZY. I mean...after all those years he sends you a text? Seriously?? He probably just got dumped and needs to get some attention somewhere. My exes all do that with me and I just ignore them. IGNORE HIM
0hpenelope Posted March 24, 2011 Posted March 24, 2011 Thanks a lot! I was serious, now you made it looks sarcasm! You probably save my life! I obiviously need to fix it! Oh wow, I thought you were being sarcastic! You mean, he and his gf at the time really did all of those things that your rough draft hinted? Geez... Yeah no problem, peace! I just hope things work out and that your ex will treat you better this time. And I hope you get all of the good from him that you deserve. He probably just got dumped and needs to get some attention somewhere. My exes all do that with me and I just ignore them. IGNORE HIM Oh NOW I wanna hear this, Sing! Sorry for the slight threadjack, peace.
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