insanearchitect Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 So I went out last weekend with a bunch of friends and got rather drunk. We were in a club and dancing and I ended up dancing with a friend, who I had just met for the first time earlier in the evening and at some point we kissed a couple of times. That ended there. I went out drinking with the same group of friends this weekend and met the same guy again. So we spoke and decided that we did not want any awkwardness and that we were adults and we should forget it. That agreed, we set about having fun with friends. Unfortunately we ended up alone again at some point and the whole kissing thing happened all over again, except that it went much further and we ended up at his place. After a lot of walking, talking and making out leading to us almost having sex I became quite sober and suddenly decided I want to go home because I was uncomfortable with the situation and I barely knew the guy. He was nice to me and dropped me home. But now, I feel this overwhelming need to see him again and am so terribly attracted to him that I don't know what to do. Do you think after I walked out of him in bed he would still be interested? The other night I told him that we forget anything ever happened. So since I was the one who said we should forget about what happened how do I tell him I am still attracted to him? I really want this to go ahead because we also spoke a lot that night and I think I have started to like this guy. HELP..!
FirstJohn318 Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 So I went out last weekend with a bunch of friends and got rather drunk. We were in a club and dancing and I ended up dancing with a friend, who I had just met for the first time earlier in the evening and at some point we kissed a couple of times. That ended there. I went out drinking with the same group of friends this weekend and met the same guy again. So we spoke and decided that we did not want any awkwardness and that we were adults and we should forget it. That agreed, we set about having fun with friends. Unfortunately we ended up alone again at some point and the whole kissing thing happened all over again, except that it went much further and we ended up at his place. After a lot of walking, talking and making out leading to us almost having sex I became quite sober and suddenly decided I want to go home because I was uncomfortable with the situation and I barely knew the guy. He was nice to me and dropped me home. But now, I feel this overwhelming need to see him again and am so terribly attracted to him that I don't know what to do. Do you think after I walked out of him in bed he would still be interested? The other night I told him that we forget anything ever happened. So since I was the one who said we should forget about what happened how do I tell him I am still attracted to him? I really want this to go ahead because we also spoke a lot that night and I think I have started to like this guy. HELP..! Well first off may I ask, what are you looking for from this? are you just physically attracted to him? or emotionally? dont confuse love and lust (as I am sure you already know this) I would suggest talking to him and being like hey, I am really confused right now and I would like to see where this would go if anywhere. But take things slow and let him know that. I suggest going on a couple of dates with NO alcohol involved and take separate cars so there are no chances of ending up at the same place. You could end the dates with a kiss but nothing more. See how things go. I think I speak for most guys when we are turned on by the fact a girl takes initiative, not just in bed, but in life in general. It lets us know that you are interested in us and you want to make us happy. But I am no expert but try that...take things slow actually date and see what happens, you may find out that it was only a physical attraction, or you may find out woah this guy is amazing
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