unsureLP Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 and I'm back here anyway... I don't know if there's anyone left from back when I first came here about a year ago. The saga continues, I guess... DH hasn't cheated, even though I'm pretty sure there was a girl flirting with him that he may have flirted with, but nothing more. I have no desire to look elsewhere outside of my marriage, so infidelity is not an issue for us. MC worked for a while, especially combined with IC. But the arguments that lead us to so much crying and yelling haven't stopped. They come and go. And he and our daughter continue to have such a rocky relationship. He's spent the last two weekends walking in and out of the house, threatening to leave us, telling her if she keeps treating him like this he'll go away forever. She's 2.5 for $#@% sake. I'm so tired. Sorry if this is a random and rambling post, I also have a fever today. Doesn't help me think.
Author unsureLP Posted March 22, 2011 Author Posted March 22, 2011 do I keep going back to MC? When do you know enough is enough? How do I know if staying together in this kind of situation is doing more harm than good to our little girl? How do I know if things will get better? I don't want to give up if there's a chance it might get better, (and I mean truly better, not just less hellish). Any thoughts? Please?
Minnie09 Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 Hugs to you. I don't know your older posts, so forgive me when I ask what your frequent arguments that lead to yelling are about? I hope he contains himself in front of your 2.5-old. It's very odd, too, that he threatens to leave if DD doesn't stop treating him a certain way. I don't know how to take this. Is it all about him? It seems so from your OP. Is he abusive (verbally and emotionally) towards you and your toddler? If so, it's time to pull the plug IMO. Good luck!
Owl Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 and I'm back here anyway... I don't know if there's anyone left from back when I first came here about a year ago. The saga continues, I guess... DH hasn't cheated, even though I'm pretty sure there was a girl flirting with him that he may have flirted with, but nothing more. I have no desire to look elsewhere outside of my marriage, so infidelity is not an issue for us. MC worked for a while, especially combined with IC. But the arguments that lead us to so much crying and yelling haven't stopped. They come and go. And he and our daughter continue to have such a rocky relationship. He's spent the last two weekends walking in and out of the house, threatening to leave us, telling her if she keeps treating him like this he'll go away forever. She's 2.5 for $#@% sake. I'm so tired. Sorry if this is a random and rambling post, I also have a fever today. Doesn't help me think. OK, not sure if this is a typo or what. Are you saying he's telling his daughter this...and she's 2 1/2 years old??? Or is she 25, and this was a typo?
Author unsureLP Posted March 22, 2011 Author Posted March 22, 2011 No, it wasn't a typo... She's a toddler, just short of 30 months. And he has been having issues with her rejecting him for a while now. I posted something about it almost a year ago: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t227188/
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