lovelyladyland Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 So , night before last I got broken up with by a wonderful guy. I think my anxiety got him scared and he said he just didnt feel the same. I'm more than crushed and can't stop blaming myself and don't know how to get through. Then today I get an email from an old ex that says basically that since I'm 30, on disability and don't work, don't really want kids and with my anxiety that no really good, decent and normal guy will want me. That basically it's either be alone or be with someone thats f**cked up in some way. That I have nothing to offer. Maybe hes right, a good man just left. And there is nothing I can do about my situation. I give up.
Mcnulty Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 How dare he say that to you!!! he's obviously a bitter twisted person...delete all contact info of him! You are young, are addressing your issues, recognize them and have just come out of a relationship where you are feeling hurt and lost, the last thing you need is arseholes like this bad mouthing you. Your life is ahead of you and you will find happiness with the right positive approach, you are far from worthless and as far as not wanting kids, so friggin what!!!! What's that got to do with anything??? Lots of guys will be looking for a lady 30 years old with no kids, believe me, I know them!!!
D-Lish Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 OP, I'm 41, with anxiety, and it's probably too late to have kids for me. When my dating profile was up, I had no trouble getting attention. I even had to move home to live with my parents after losing my job, and that still didn't deter men from asking me out or wanting to get to know me! Anxiety can be managed. One thing I had to do was to get my "stuff" sorted out. Once I did, I met someone. I think you have to figure out how your anxiety affects your relationships so you can learn how to change how you react in your relationships.
EmperorR Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 When you least expect it trust me. Just be patient, look obviously your old ex has some major issues, and is just trying to make you feel bad about something.
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