dethfire Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 I've been dating a girl for a little over two months. I wouldn't call it serious, but we've been intimate and we see each other at least a few times a week. I enjoy my time with her, but I am pretty sure she is not "the one". Just last week a girl I play a sport with has friendly advances towards me. It all of a sudden sparked all this emotion in me. Now thoughts of getting to know her more are racing through my head. So two questions! 1. Am I too far in with this current girl to make advances with the new girl? ie communicate/flirt/spend time together? 2. If I am even considering someone else (this early!), does that reaffirm that the current girl, although very nice, is not "the one" for me? thanks!!
Chicklette Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 Are you and the two-month girl exclusive? Have you had 'The Talk'? If you've answered no to both, then I say the new girl is fair game. BUT You should take the mature route and have a sit down with the girl you're currently seeing and ask whether you're exclusive/have an open relationship so that everything is out in the open and nobody ends up getting hurt.
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