IM5150 Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 I didn't see the day that I would actually be going NC with my x girlfriend. We've had a very interesting 3 year relationship, it was very hard. We never really had any trust and after 3 years we tried to be just friends. ^ months later I couldn't handle hanging out with her and not being more intimate so I finally told her not to call me. This is actually the second time I ask her not to call me. The last time I tried this, 3 days went by before she called and I gave in and we started hanging out again for about a month. Now I'm back to square one again. It's been 5 days now and I haven't heard from her. I thought that I was going to go through a deep depression but I seem to be doing OK. I cried the day I told her to stop calling me but after that I've managed to keep myself busy. I will say that this move has not been easy. I knew that I had to get out of this relationship very early on but I just couldn't do it even though I knew it was not good for me. I think I was suffering from some sort of Obsessive Love disorder. I actually read a couple of books about this. I don't think I really ever loved this girl, it was more of an obsession and infatuation. For this reason I felt it to be really hard to let go, well, now I finally did it. I still have her as a friend on Facebook but i don't check her site. I'm tkaing baby steps but I think I'm on the right track.
2011 Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 You have a long way to go, the first few days seem easy but wait till a month in then 2 then 3 you will start to get really impatient and want to break it all the time. NC is not as simple as you are thinking it is going to be, sorry to be upfront but I was like this at the start, but it can get brutal. Just be prepared for all that comes your way. Do not contact and try and get out and do things that take your mind off of it. It's like quitting a drug you seem ok for the first few days then it really sets in after a few weeks/months. Just keep going the way you are going and feel the pain because it will come, it's how you handle it that sets you apart from people that can't do it. 2011
silvermane187 Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 Oh god, block her from FB before it's too late! lol trust me...it will come back to bite you in the ass if you don't.
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