maddii Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 Saw him for the first time today, the last time I saw him was early january, and the last time we spoke was online on valentines day, which was a casual conversation, but I ignored him a few days later when he tried to casually speak to me again.. He completely ignored me, we were on the same bus, he was literally sat opposite me, yet he stared out of the window and played with his phone the whole time, he wouldn't even look at me... Does this mean he's over it, or that maybe he's still hurting, and regrets how he treated me, but feels awkward about talking to me.. We were best friends for a year, and we ended on good terms initially, I'd thanked him for the past year of friendship, and he replied saying thank you too.. so even though he really hurt me, I tried to keep it civil, so why would he completely ignore me when he sees me? I know maybe a conversation is out of the question, and that he's probably worried about me possibly rejecting him if he does talk to me.. but I'm confused as to whether he still cares etc..
Hhhh Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 It's most likely fear of rejection. Most exes realize they made a mistake but never make contact because they are afraid of rejection. I don't want to give you false hope, just saying that's probably why he ignored
Author maddii Posted March 21, 2011 Author Posted March 21, 2011 Thank you, that's what I kinda thought... Pity because it doesn't give me false hope, because I know he's too scared to talk to me, but then it does because I know he isn't ignoring me because he hates me, which makes me think somehow it will still work..
Author maddii Posted March 22, 2011 Author Posted March 22, 2011 Any other thoughts/opinions? Would be much appreciated.
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