jaygaudi Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 My girlfriend who I have been with for several years, has been pulling back since the very start of our relationship. I try to kiss her, she acts like she is busy. She does not want to be on the phone long with me, but will be on the phone with others for a half hour? She puts a body pillow between us in bed & says that its the way she likes to sleep. I ask her if she wants to go on a date aboute once or twice a week, she tells me she's been working & is very tired, & tells me to take our 5 year old daughter instead. But she will always want to go out by herself. I hug her, and she pulls away very quickly. She tells me she does not like hugs, she feels trapped. But I have seen her give others hugs & they are long. We have a very large age difference. I do so much for her. She works and can provide for her own, but I choose to pay all of our bills, she lives in my house, I have bought her 3 cars since we have been dating. I buy everything in the house she wants. She can have anything if she just asks, and also our daughter can have anything if she asks. I am loving to her. I try to provide the best life possible. I am very hard worker, and make more than enough to provide, where she does not have to work. I told her this, but she said she would feel lazy and enjoys working to provide for her daughter herself. I think men at work flirt with her, but when I asked her she said no & became annoyed. I went to her work on a day I was off, with her daughter, on her lunch break, & she seems annoyed. Also, there was a young man staring at her. I try to hold her hand in public she pulls away, and acts as if she has something to do. On her free time, she never wants to do anything with me. I would never leave her, only if I knew for sure she cheated on me. I am wondering if any women can tell me what this means. Is this because of how young women her age act? She told me if she didn't love me, she would leave right away. I am very worried Nicole might go for a younger man. Also, I check her phonebill and see numbers I have never seen before. That she calls late at night and several times a week. She seems very sweet girl and doesn't seem to lie. I have never heard anything bad she has done in the past to a man. I wish I could talk to a past man she dated to see how their relationship was sometimes. Should I let this go, or should I look into this more? That is my question. She is 23 very young and pretty girl. I went on internet for signs of cheating such as losing weight, wearing makeup to go to gym. I always tell her I am worried about her eating habits. For the last several months, she eats once a day. She says she is not hungry. She is proportionate though. Does not wear much makeup anymore if any. And never to work out. What do you think?
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