Niyog Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 I have this friend who actually just forced me into being her friend. Sometimes I enjoy her company, but not all the time. She stole my phone just to put her phone number in, not to mention she just uses me for her own fun. She tells me what to do, bosses me around, and she is so ANNOYING. This is why she's my frenemy. Constantly, she calls my phone and texts me in the worst timing ever! She texted my phone in the middle of the night. She always brags at me whenever she gets a slightly better grade than me on a worksheet, but I tend to do SO much better than her on a test! I get an A on a test, she gets a D and redoes it. And still her grade is worse than mine. The one thing I hate the most is how she always butts into my love life! When she found out about my secret crush being my guy friend, she constantly tells him I like him. When I wrote that love letter, she snatched it right out of my hands and hands it to him. Because of my "friend" there are rumors going around my school about me previously going out with him. She bragged when she got her first boyfriend. He's probably made up. She made me go to her house and I nearly get bruised and scraped by her sisters! I am NEVER going back. I like her, but I hate her even more. Any advice or anything? Don't be too hard, I'm fragile
betterdeal Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 Better to have a good enemy than a bad friend. She bullies you. Tell her not to bully you or it's over. If she continues to bully, lose contact with her. She needs to know what behaviour of hers has what effect, and you will gain from standing up to her.
Bionic Me Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 make yourself UNAVAILABLE. That simple. She'll get tired and go find another victim.
Tayla Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 I was agasp at the entire story. The only thing I smiled about was the terminology- "frienemy". Truly befits you both. If I ever had the good heart to invite a friend/guest into my home I would hope they have the decency to not write online how inappropriate "in their perspective" the environment was. It should be dealt with in a quiet non confronting style. I get that by your writing you are young and still trying to come into your own, I hope you gain true friendships in due time. You sound like you could use a real friend.
NXS Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 Sounds like she comes from one of those homes where there's no boundaries and everyone lives in each others' personal space. She'll probably make a lifelong friend if you educate her on personal space and social etiquette.
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