Ms. Joolie Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 He sounds like he really liked you, and now he is really anxious. That could mean a whole bunch of things, but if you don't like it than call it done.
SmileFace Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 You misspelt a word No, my spelling is politically correct...hahaha
Dust Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 Sounds more like a very eager (horny) guy indeed. His apparent intentions seem to contradict. This guy is ready and rearing to put you through an obstacle course. (In bed)
Author makelemonade1974 Posted March 21, 2011 Author Posted March 21, 2011 Does this mean you'll finally stop whining about how there's no one to date you? Just wondering. Are you kidding? I will never stop complaining, or being all 155 pages of the definition of Emo: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=emo I need every possible opportunity to piss you off. TROLL
Author makelemonade1974 Posted March 21, 2011 Author Posted March 21, 2011 I dunno - now I have two red flags: 1) he texts too much. 2) he gets pissed off when I tell him he texts too much. But he kisses good.
EasyHeart Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 (edited) Anger is never a good sign. Especially for sensitive emo grrrls. Combined with the constant texting/rushing of the relationship, there's a 99.82% chance that he is insecure. Edited March 21, 2011 by EasyHeart
cutecatch Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 Met this guy online. Great first date - long dinner (3-4 hours of talking), then we got a little tipsy, went to meet some of his friends for drinks - who were fabulous btw - lots of kissing after dinner and drinks, goodbye kissing etc. etc. really hot stuff. He kisses amazing, kept telling me how beautiful I was and it was generally great. There's not much I don't like about him - he's great looking, similar interests, level-headed, successful businessman, we even like the same music. Here's my issue - we have talked a LOT online - more than I would usually do pre-date. We shared a lot at dinner and he seems to be looking for a relationship - or at least keeps telling me that. The making out was apparently so hot that he keeps making references to what great sex we would have, which I find a little crass (and tell him so). I got a wake-up text this morning telling me how much fun he had and he thinks I'm beautiful, etc. I responded and we've been texting back and forth literally all day. At one point I had to tell him to quit so I could get some work done. He is SO eager - and the sex talk is freaking me out. Sex is not a "sport" for me and I don't plan on sleeping with him until I feel he's trustworthy - maybe a month or two, certainly not on the next date or even the third date. I need to get to know him first. Are these red flags? He keeps telling me he's likes me for me and not my body, etc. and he's not just looking to screw, but why does he talk about it so much then? I like him, don't get me wrong, I just prefer to be a little more cautious in my approach to relationships. Is this guy a nut or is this just some pursuit thing? Maybe he's like instantly in love with me or something? I'm a bit overwhelmed. Any advice would be appreciated. And sorry to start all these threads lately - it's been an eventful week. Ok guys take note, don't be this guy. Girls hate it. This guy will get nowhere with this girl, they might go out a few more times but he will not bang her ever. What he should have done is ignore her for about a week, go out and bang other girls, text her about a week later and when she responds text her back a couple of days after that. Take her out for a fun date like hiking, pool it does not matter as long as you are active, then go out for drinks make contact, kiss her go back to your place or hers and watch her panties come off. If you act disinterested and have othet options you will dictate the relationship not her.
sumdude Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 I dunno - now I have two red flags: 1) he texts too much. 2) he gets pissed off when I tell him he texts too much. But he kisses good. Sounds like one of of those possible push-pull drama relationships in the making.
blackmagik Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 I don't even know what to say about that. It definitely sounds a little eager to me, but actions do speak louder than words. On the next date see if he is pushing for sex, if he continues to push then it is definitely a red flag since you have made your wishes obvious to him. Personally when I like a girl the sex talk would be kept to a minimum and would definitely not be brought up be me ESPECIALLY on a first date. Sex talk is not meant for a first date at all IMO. As for messaging, I don't think messaging is necessarily bad. My girlfriend and I have messaged the whole time we have been dating. However neither of us will rattle messages off if the other hasn't responded yet. (text messages)
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