flowerlove Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 I'm a 19 year old chick and there's this guy who's an acquaintance of mine (and is older than me). He confessed to me that he has a crush on me, about 5 months ago. I've known him for about 3 years now. We hardly know each other though, because we only see each other for brief moments and talk briefly when we see each other. He doesn't even know my last name. We know each other because we live in the same neighborhood. Anyway, he has asked for my number but since I barely know him I'd thought it'd be better to be a bit cautious & give him my email address instead (which he had asked for in the past). I'm always cautious about who gets my contact information so it's not like I singled him out. He didn't seem bothered by this at all and emailed me the very day that I gave him my email address. I responded to his email but he never responded back. Every time, he sees me he initiates a hug, we talk & he has told me multiple times about how attractive I am and that he likes me "so much" yet, he never contacts me when we don't see each other. I emailed him before about three times but he never responded to those emails. In a time frame of about 4 months, I only have a total of 10 very short messages from him. I understand that this may not be his favorite form of communication because most people hardly even use email nowadays, but he seems to enjoy talking to me when we see each other, he always likes to hug me, hold my hand, touch my face, hold me in his arms and he has even kissed me on the lips before (only once). Again, the problem is he claims he likes me but doesn't bother to keep in touch when we don't come into contact, personally. When we're together though, in each others' presence, it's like he can hardly get enough of me. He tries to keep the conversation going & is pretty affectionate as I mentioned earlier. Anyway, my question here is: Why doesn't he bother to contact me when he doesn't get to see me? Does this mean that he doesn't like me as much as he says?
MarlyStar Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 Well, I had a similar problem that first brought me to LS. Showed a lot of interest when we were together and genuinely liked my company; but he had a secret life that was pretty startling once I found it out. If he's not contacting you, there's a reason. You may never find out what it is, but it's there just the same. I know you don't want to hear this, but it's for the best, focus on other guys and forget this one.
Author flowerlove Posted March 21, 2011 Author Posted March 21, 2011 Well, I had a similar problem that first brought me to LS. Showed a lot of interest when we were together and genuinely liked my company; but he had a secret life that was pretty startling once I found it out. If he's not contacting you, there's a reason. You may never find out what it is, but it's there just the same. I know you don't want to hear this, but it's for the best, focus on other guys and forget this one. You have a point. Thanks for your input.
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