Hopeless Girl Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 What does it mean when a guy dumps you cause hes insecure about the relationship and says "lets not talk for a while" and completely disappears. My boyfriend now ex had the worst relationship before me he had to go to a psychologist and stuff. Thing is if hes not sure now hes gonna marry the girl and is not secure for the future he dumps her. He did that to me and we loved each other so much and got along. We were really different yea but i was very optimistic about everything but he just got up and go. He loved seeing me every day. we had our discussions here and there then he says "you know if were gonna start out relationship like this is gonna end up bad" and in my head im like every relationship has its ups and downs. Anyways please help. How can I get him back?
MasonM618 Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 Hi Hopeless, Well it sounds like he should see a professional for help with his isssue. Sounds like he may have a problem with commitment. I would suggest you just remain friends with him for now and see if he winds up opening up. Take it slow, give him space and see where it leads you guys.
depplover_1980 Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 Hi Hopeless, Well it sounds like he should see a professional for help with his isssue. Sounds like he may have a problem with commitment. I would suggest you just remain friends with him for now and see if he winds up opening up. Take it slow, give him space and see where it leads you guys. I second this, as it is classic commitment phobia stemming from a bad experience. I have a man in my life who is the same but I accept it will never be now until he is truly and willing to change - it has to come from them, i'm sorry to tell you the truth.
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