hew Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 Before i ramble on, does anyone else feel like they wish they had solid friendships and honest and real people in their life? I lost my best friend, someone who i absolutely admired. We were like sisters. But after 2 years she decided the friendship wasnt right anymore. I became even more depressed then i was and lost all my friends because i switched schools looking for a fresh start. I just feel like an outcast lately. I have new "friends" and people i hangout with but nothing special. I know friendships take a while to developt but i just wish i knew some good people. Im almost done highschool and i cannot wait for that day. I just want to start university and meet people with common interests and beliefs. I want to meet a really good guy to have a relationship with. I know im young but i just wish i had that special someone. And i dont mean "mr. right who im going to marry" i mean mr. right now. Someone whos down to earth and caring. Not caught up in drama and other stuff. Just wondering if anyone else feels this way?
Macaw Posted March 25, 2011 Posted March 25, 2011 I used to feel that way. So you're not alone in that thought. That was 9 years ago for me (when I left for College). The good news is, life got better. I wouldn't recommend searching for friends that will stay with you for a lifetime though. People change as they grow older, and there are very very few friendships you'll ever have that last more than a decade. The friends you'll make when you are 20 might have a completely different mindset at 40, after life has taken its toll on both of you. If you really need meaningful lifelong relationships, I suggest you build these in your family (or build a family yourself with that as it's focus) rather than seeking BFFs.
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