tobydog1 Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 am doing Ok ish. But obviously I have a million questions still. The latest is........ When we were together he was the most generous man ever. Totally generous. Now he is the meanest man ever and has not given us a penny in 6 mon ths. Why? He was a great father to our son, now nothing. he saw him for the first time in 6 weeks the other day.......for an hour and 20 minutes? I don't get it, does anyone? Does he hate me so much?
Jon Morris Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 Sorry to hear this. The guy sounds like a jerk.
PegNosePete Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 Hi TD, glad you're doing OK. Unfortunately you will never get answers to these questions. The fact is that he is not the same person you used to know. That person is dead. This new person is an a-hole. You need to go to the CSA to get your child maintenance.
Yasuandio Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 Tobydog, sweetie, his regression into boyhood places him under the strict guidence of his Mommy dearest. As a Mom yourself, would want your son keeping company or sleeping with a mature woman twice his senior (or more)?
Author tobydog1 Posted March 22, 2011 Author Posted March 22, 2011 Thanks for the replies...... Very sad today as he returned the divorce papers so it looks like we are going to divorce......a tiny part of me wishes he didn't...... But all so surreal, 6 months ago he loved me, now has vanished from our lives. Hates me and won't see his son hardly.....In 6 months we have hardly talked, hardly seen each other....can he love this OW so much? I mean I am great, well obs not and she is a rough slag? We are so different, does he need that? OW is 20 years older, does he need her to look after him when I didn't? Oh Hell I am in Hell again........He does not even care about his son who had to have emergency dental treatment for a massive abcess on his gum. I texted him...no reply? Why has he gone, changed? Did I hurt him so much? It is all my fault and I cannot cope with the guilt of this......
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