chelle21689 Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 I've been with my ex for 5 1/2 years and he was a big talker so conversation was really easy but sometimes he could ramble on for hours while I sit in silence bored. Anyways, I'm dating a new guy and he's completely opposite of my ex but he has a great personality and he is a good guy. He's a lot more on the reserved side. He makes conversation and funny jokes but it's not always there. We're both a like as introverts and our personality but I notice I talk more than him. When he's with his friends I notice he tends to listen and make small comments while they talk the whole time. I even talked more to his friends than him haha. Some days me and this guy have long conversations, sometimes it seems like there's nothing to talk about. Some days we're quiet around eachother and sometimes we're just joking around. It's so weird and inconsistent. It really worries me that because we can't go on for hours about things that it means we won't work and maybe he finds me boring. I wonder if I'm just overanalyzing because I've been in a relationship where we talk all the time (cuz my ex is a huge talker...btw that was my only relationship so I have nothing else to compare to and not much experience with different people). I mean, if that's just the way he is then I'm fine with it... but I wonder if he's just like that with ME? Because if so then I guess it'd be an issue.
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