PhillyDude Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 I finally was able to get it out of the girl that she lost interest because too much time went by after our first date. Our first date was in the beginning of February and I normally don't go on two dates in the same pay period unless it really went well. So I guess some other guy was more available and push me out of the game. But why do women do constantly do this? If she had lost interest why dd she continously respond to my texts? Wouldnt have been easier to ignore me? Why keep saying I'm busy on that day? On that day Too? I thought people were more bold over text?
Sash Bunny Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 Trust me dude, not all girls are the same. But it is annoying to get stringed along, I know.
Intricategirl Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 Girls get crap if they don't respond to texts. We also get crap if we do respond to them. But girls aren't the only ones that string people along... It doesn't necessarily matter why. Just find someone else more compatible.
Author PhillyDude Posted March 20, 2011 Author Posted March 20, 2011 Girls get crap if they don't respond to texts. We also get crap if we do respond to them. But girls aren't the only ones that string people along... It doesn't necessarily matter why. Just find someone else more compatible. But why respond to someone if you had developed an interest in someone else? Now i'm not sure if she still wanted to be friends but atleast let me know if I no longer have a chance to go on a date with you.
Crazy Magnet Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 It could be a lot of things: boredom, ego boost, back burner, polite, wasn't sure what else to do, etc. So you only take a girl out once every 2 weeks?? That's ummm....a bit lengthy. I personally would have to be over the top interested to wait that long when there are plenty of guys who will take a girl out once per week. Were you calling her in between or just texting?
Author PhillyDude Posted March 20, 2011 Author Posted March 20, 2011 It could be a lot of things: boredom, ego boost, back burner, polite, wasn't sure what else to do, etc. So you only take a girl out once every 2 weeks?? That's ummm....a bit lengthy. I personally would have to be over the top interested to wait that long when there are plenty of guys who will take a girl out once per week. Were you calling her in between or just texting? Well it depends on how my money is looking. And the problem was she wasn't a phone person only text and face to face so it grew further apart as time went on because e were not talking on the phone or seeing each other face to face. I can't just text and face to face.
betterdeal Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 I sincerely hope you were joking when you said you FORCED them to tell you the truth. You do see the problem with FORCING anyone to do anything, right?
Crazy Magnet Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 Well it depends on how my money is looking. And the problem was she wasn't a phone person only text and face to face so it grew further apart as time went on because e were not talking on the phone or seeing each other face to face. I can't just text and face to face. I'm with you there. I get lost in texting and face to face only. How about planning something like a picnic or walk in the park on the "off" weeks when money is tight? I could personally be satisfied off with a Sonic slush, good conversation, and some time under a shade tree! lol What I have learned though is I cannot date a texter. Maybe you should next her for all the texting.
Author PhillyDude Posted March 20, 2011 Author Posted March 20, 2011 I sincerely hope you were joking when you said you FORCED them to tell you the truth. You do see the problem with FORCING anyone to do anything, right? When I say Force I didn't mean dragging her by the hair and telling her to spit it out. I mean being persistent through email/text in trying to find out whether or not she is still interested by suggesting we go out on a certain night. She told me i seemed comfortable being home at a certain time and not out and about..
betterdeal Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 It's pretty obvious if she doesn't speak to you on the phone or doesn't meet with you once a fortnight that she's doesn't want to meet you once a fortnight. Actions speak louder than words.
Author PhillyDude Posted March 20, 2011 Author Posted March 20, 2011 It's pretty obvious if she doesn't speak to you on the phone or doesn't meet with you once a fortnight that she's doesn't want to meet you once a fortnight. Actions speak louder than words. Well I'm not too crazy always having a date on friday and saturday night. I'm open to during the week when the atmosphere is less crazy and more calm.
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