nikayla Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 (edited) I met a guy on an online dating site, he is 24 and I am 21. We have been talking for nearly two months (long distance) and plan to meet up this week. However, I'm starting to notice a few red flags.He says that his mother is sick, so he spends a lot of time at the hospital while balancing work (military) and diversion (he plays for a band). He wants to become serious and put labels on the relationship right away, even after I suggested we take it slow. At times, he returns my phone call once a week...and mainly through texts. He becomes interested again only after I start to ignore his advances. I believe I hold on because he constantly tells me his mother isn't getting better...but his hot and cold nature is becoming a turn off. Should I run the other way? Thanks in advance. Edited March 20, 2011 by nikayla
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