Minnie09 Posted March 22, 2011 Posted March 22, 2011 Maybe it is sexual repression and maybe it is something else, but when you do not even recognize of the man you are married too that should be some indicator that they have something inside them they have never shared with you. Yes, that last sentence of yours defines it pretty well. Sure they share with the AP or friend what they don't share with the spouse. They need something to share with the new friend that they can't share with the spouse. That's what it's all about. OPs H gets his ego-feed and (currently) covers it up as a sexual fantasy he cannot live up to in his M (the cover-up topic will change as they need it, btw), other WS use the "mean, cold wife" as an excuse, and there are thousands, but in the end they want to boost their self-esteem. Whatever they can use, they use as an excuse, and the excuse boils down to some flaw that the spouse has (sexually, romantically, emotionally, physically, mentally,... you name it). Do you think he wouldn't talk to his "friend" if the topics discussed were more "innocent"? I doubt it.
dreamingoftigers Posted March 23, 2011 Posted March 23, 2011 Hopefully everything went okay.... Well as okay as it could anyways.
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