Iceybreaker Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 Here's the mostly fully story version: [COLOR=#660000]http://paste2.org/p/1312035[/COLOR] Short story version: i was with a guy for 3 years online only,never met up, then he broke off with me past summer saying he didnt want to be attached to someone he couldnt have in real life, while he was talking to some other girl online. Once i no contacted him he immediately jumped in with her it seems. They are now "together"; he is from America, and she is from Canada..he is 18 and she is now 14 (was 13 when they met online). They have met up 3 times in the past 7 months theyve been together/known each other. What are the chance of them working out? I feel like hes learned what to do and what not to do from our relationship when it comes to online relationships but he never bothered to do anything with me. Drives me nuts!
creighton0123 Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 The chances of them working out? Slim to nil. The chances of him going to jail? Pretty high.
Author Iceybreaker Posted March 20, 2011 Author Posted March 20, 2011 The chances of them working out? Slim to nil. The chances of him going to jail? Pretty high. LOL aww you made me laugh =,) idk if pedophile laws would work in canada though. wish there was a way to report him!!
Citizen Erased Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 It's not illegal unless they have sex, sorry to disappoint you that you can't ruin someone's life because you're jealous. He is an 18 year old child clearly not thinking of any consequences. Not someone that deserves to go to jail and be labeled a child molester the rest of his life. You need to stop worrying about him and focus on your own life.
OliveOyl Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 You moved to be closer to this guy and yet you still never met. Take several steps back and look at the big picture... what's wrong with it? A lot. I've seen people waste years and years and go through a lot of heartache over online romances. Please... don't give your life away to online relationships.
SleeplessRomantic Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 You moved to be closer to this guy and yet you still never met. Take several steps back and look at the big picture... what's wrong with it? A lot. I've seen people waste years and years and go through a lot of heartache over online romances. Please... don't give your life away to online relationships. Vouching for this, because I'm proof. Nearly three years. Allegedly ended with no closure. All I've felt for the last few months has been nothing but heartbreak and incessant wondering. Take it from me, OP -- live and enjoy your life. He'll be the one missing out. Don't be so hard on yourself.
Author Iceybreaker Posted March 20, 2011 Author Posted March 20, 2011 (edited) @citizen: boo...as much as Id love to see him get arrested for it, (a good laugh) you're right. And boy am i NOT jealous, i wouldnt get paid to be in that girls shoes now that I can look back and see how ridic this all has been and how everything he told me hes telling her; its like really bad dejavu and ive realized he only cares for himself. He even said that about the consequences thing when i told him he was sick for being with a 13 year old and telling her things he used to tell me. Guess what he said? "I dont care, and sure i feel bad about it but as long as it makes her happy then ill keep doing it. I dont care about the future I only care about NOW. I used to never care about myself but now Im going to just live in the moment." Bastard!! Just a lot of anger/hatred after all I did to make things work, leaving family, etc. Heck, him being with her is a better revenge i guess?: he'll never really live life constrained to the computer, has to spend hundreds of dollars to get some, if he WERE to get some hed be a pedophile, and doesnt have the ability to have her everyday if he wanted. Too bad I think he realizes that, and hes just using her to use up his time now that ive left him and the distance works well for him so that hes not too committed, and because shes an idiot who has never been in a relationship hes in total control of the situation. the girl is die hard loving this jerk, haha... @Sleepless romantic and @Olive Oyl: =/ same exact thing here: 3 years, no closure.. its so good to hear someone else has been in this situation of online junk and stupidity. I will NEVER be doing online relationships ever again. Ive realized in order to be together, you have to BE TOGETHER. I've just gotta live life now and start all over, but now i want to move again cuz i hate being on this side of the country, esp when ppl ask me what im doing here...ugh no money!! Edited March 20, 2011 by Iceybreaker
folieadeux Posted March 21, 2011 Posted March 21, 2011 Whether this works out or not is irrelevant; this guy moved on and so should you and isn't even worth talking about anymore.
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