PhillyDude Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 (edited) I went on a date with this girl a couple of weeks ago and tried to set up a second date yesterday. The three days I suggested i was told she had something planned. So i figured that she was not interested and I sent this text to her as a JOKE thinking it would be my last text because I was tired of trying to set up a date. "would you be interested in receiving a financial gift every month to come cuddle and kiss with me at my place? " So i figured she would ignore it or say no. Her text is below "So I was thinking about what you asked and i would consider the offer but because I am actively dating I wouldn';t want to close out all my options and juggle too many things on my plate. Why are you offering this? Is it because you are too busy to date agressively? I would like to know the motivation. Have you offered this to any other women in the past? I will think about this some more and let you know" I'm confused because it's a YES or NO answer plus i wasn't expecting her to be interested. And she said she is actively dating which is something I already know because I tried to set up a second date and was unable to. So what is it she has to think about? And what does her dating actively have to do with her saying yes or no to my offer?-lol Why is she making this so complicated? HELP ME LADIES!!!! Edited March 19, 2011 by PhillyDude
Ricl Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 What it has to do is that she might feel it as cheating or otherwise complicating her current dating. So she's thinking whether she likes the financial offer enough. Or she's knew you were joking and is just messing with you.
Author PhillyDude Posted March 19, 2011 Author Posted March 19, 2011 What it has to do is that she might feel it as cheating or otherwise complicating her current dating. So she's thinking whether she likes the financial offer enough. Or she's knew you were joking and is just messing with you. Well her dating other guys was something I didn't need to know. I been trying to see her to go on another date and when told I'm busy on that day and that day I just said the hell with it. So I was trying to get under her skin thinking she would be insulted by an offer like that and to respond and say-"let me think about it" was unexpected.
MarlyStar Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 She's dating, but she's willing to prostitute herself on the side. She took you seriously, because women get these offers online (I have in the last few weeks on match), but she's seriously considering it. She's letting you know that she's shopping for a serious relationship tho and implying any financial/intimate relationship with you will have to be discreet. She wants to know your terms, how often, how much, for how long, etc... Uggg.... good thing you found out what she's really like. (I do not think she was joking with you, altho I suppose it's slightly possible).
Author PhillyDude Posted March 20, 2011 Author Posted March 20, 2011 She's dating, but she's willing to prostitute herself on the side. She took you seriously, because women get these offers online (I have in the last few weeks on match), but she's seriously considering it. She's letting you know that she's shopping for a serious relationship tho and implying any financial/intimate relationship with you will have to be discreet. She wants to know your terms, how often, how much, for how long, etc... Uggg.... good thing you found out what she's really like. (I do not think she was joking with you, altho I suppose it's slightly possible). So why do you think it mattered to her whether or not I gave another woman this offer? And why does she want to know the motivation behind me asking her to do this?
Author PhillyDude Posted March 20, 2011 Author Posted March 20, 2011 She's dating, but she's willing to prostitute herself on the side. She took you seriously, because women get these offers online (I have in the last few weeks on match), but she's seriously considering it. She's letting you know that she's shopping for a serious relationship tho and implying any financial/intimate relationship with you will have to be discreet. She wants to know your terms, how often, how much, for how long, etc... Uggg.... good thing you found out what she's really like. (I do not think she was joking with you, altho I suppose it's slightly possible). And she asked-"Are you askingme to do this because you are too busy to date? Does she mean to busy to date her?
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