murah989 Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 I posted in my last thread that I was going to a beer festival to volunteer as a bartender. My station was right behind another ( we were back to back) and I noticed a classmate that was working that particular station. It was this girl I knew, as well as another I didn't. Apparently this other girl was in one of my classes, but we've just never seen each other. I introduced myself and we chatted for a bit. Mostly about the upcoming beer fest that was scheduled to happen in an hour. My confidence was high, and I was having fun and we all seemed to have a nice conversation. I worked my station for approximately 4 hours, with intermittent breaks that were spent chatting it up with this new girl. Conversation was light and fluffly with light joking. After both our shifts, she came over to me and asked if I wanted to walk around and try some beer. I could tell she was really shy, but I was surprised she was so forward about it. I felt she was waiting on me to go with her. We walked around for a bit, and there was this tension. Like the tension you get when you both like each other, but don't know what to say. After about 30 minutes, we all decided to part ways, but not before I asked for her number and said "Hey, it was nice meeting you, lets hangout sometime". We exchanged numbers and I left..... About an hour later, I texted her to just make sure that we both had the correct numbers. I just mentioned that it was a pleasure to meet her and that we should grab drinks sometime. Nothing too big. I still haven't recieved a respose, and its been over 2 hours...so not stressing to much. However, my roommate said I already blew it by "making plans" and being too forward. I can't believe this, but knowing how messed up the dating game is, I wouldn't be surprised if I was ignored....sigh.....any insight on this anyone???
Kindaconfused_77 Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 Your roomate is talking out of his ass, if she likes you, she'll get back to you.
Intricategirl Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 Without actually seeing it happen, it sounds like you did everything right. Don't sweat it. She may have other stuff she's got to handle, but two hours REALLY isn't that long to go without a reply.
denise_xo Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 Your roomate is talking out of his ass, if she likes you, she'll get back to you. Agree with this.
Duckduckgoose Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 Some girls won't get back to you right away that's just how we are. I personally get back to people ASAP even if I am not interested in them. I tend to do the "fade" on people I am not interested in.
Author murah989 Posted March 20, 2011 Author Posted March 20, 2011 Thanks for the replies everyone!! It's been about 6 hours I believe, and still no response. I'm starting to wonder whether I even got the right phone number lol. I guess I'll just see where this goes....sigh...
Macaw Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 You're letting your anxiety get the best of you. Smack it back into her place. It's very unnattractive to look desperate. She might even take a few days to reply to you. I suggest you keep yourself busy. After you have been in enough dates with different people, you start to take much more time to feel a connection with strangers, and eventually you'll start to feel turned off by people who act pushy or clingy too. The dating game sure is a bizarre thing, but we all go through it sooner or later. I'm with the other posters when they said that if she liked you, she'll get back to you. Just whatever you do, do not send another text so soon. Wait at least a full day go by.
Author murah989 Posted March 20, 2011 Author Posted March 20, 2011 It's very rare I run into women who wait days to reply to my texts...I think the longest one was 3 weeks?? I always wonder how they decide to suddenly contact me.
angielove Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 Maybe she just didn't think your last text required a reply. Was it a question or just a statement? She was the one who initially showed you interest by asking you to walk around and drink some beer with her. So I think you should try contacting her again. But wait 1-2 weeks so enough time has elapsed between contact. Try calling her, if she doesn't pick up then message her.
Author murah989 Posted March 20, 2011 Author Posted March 20, 2011 It was definitely a statement. So I suppose maybe it didn't require a response. However, I always like to think something like "Hey lets grab drinks sometime" would illicit a "Yea sounds great! =)" response. But I suppose different strokes for different folks. Don't you think 1-2 weeks is a long time seeing as she's in my class?? I don't want to ignore her, then just be like "hey, how bout them drinks?".
Author murah989 Posted March 20, 2011 Author Posted March 20, 2011 So, its 12pm right now and I've not received a response from her. Ha ha, it would be nice to think that she really likes me, but is playing a game so she doesn't come off as desperate. Oh, a boy can dream. What should I do when I see her in class???
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