kidofpassion Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 i find that the women i really like are just playing and that who they really are is far from who they act like they are.im single again after 19 yearsof my high school love to find out that the woman i fell in love with never really existed.so im trying to date and all i get is lies and playing games.they seem to be kind and warm at first and then wham i see these things that are so different.words that they speak are so different than their actions. life has enough games without having to play them with a person you want to have quality time with.situations are tough and my idea of a companion is one to listen to. one to be there for as well as have there for.one to look forward to time together away from lifes rough challenges.to get lost in each other even in a cup of coffee or a movie or looking at her beauty as she shares a hard time with you.to listen to her and feel her pain not trying to be a fix it ok get over it guy. to really connect. but it then goes to playing games to see how it can affect me.my marriage went good while i partied and was a bad boy. i went straight and church and she hated me.what the hell.i dont want to have to play games like i dont care to have an in timate relationship. nothing in this world is prettier than a classy lady . but i can find one who is both classy inside and out.bars dont find them church dont find them if they exist will someone please tell me where to go.i want to be a gentleman to a lady who will be a lady to me.what am i doing wrong
grecian Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 I kid you not, the same problem exists on both sides. There's a lot of guys who play games as well, or maybe they don't really know what they want. It's so hard to find someone who will genuinely love you for who you are and work through the relationship without unnecessary drama no matter what. Unfortunately, that's how it is nowadays for a lot of people out there.
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