joshextreme Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 If any of you have read my post (http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t269539/) then you'd know that with the text I sent her that night I probably pushed her away. Right now I'm on 1 week of NC but I cant help but feel like that night didn't get handled right. I don't want her to think of me as this pathetic loser who's still in love with her. I want her to get this idea that I'm ok without her, which is partially true. Any ideas on what I should do to get this through to her without talking?
2011 Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 If any of you have read my post (http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t269539/) then you'd know that with the text I sent her that night I probably pushed her away. Right now I'm on 1 week of NC but I cant help but feel like that night didn't get handled right. I don't want her to think of me as this pathetic loser who's still in love with her. I want her to get this idea that I'm ok without her, which is partially true. Any ideas on what I should do to get this through to her without talking? You've pretty much answered your own question, don't be needy and back right off. 2011
Author joshextreme Posted March 19, 2011 Author Posted March 19, 2011 You've pretty much answered your own question, don't be needy and back right off. 2011 Wow lol. Ok thanks. Yeah when I start thinking about this stuff I like freak out.
geegirl Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 (edited) If any of you have read my post (http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t269539/) then you'd know that with the text I sent her that night I probably pushed her away. Right now I'm on 1 week of NC but I cant help but feel like that night didn't get handled right. I don't want her to think of me as this pathetic loser who's still in love with her. I want her to get this idea that I'm ok without her, which is partially true. Any ideas on what I should do to get this through to her without talking? When going through matters of the heart, it's never going to be perfect. You can't go in there trying to right wrongs everytime you feel you didn't handle it the way you should have. Emotions get the best of us. You were open and vulnerable to her. You acted based on what you felt and you let her know your true feelings. And she didn't receive it the way you wanted her to. Don't re-hash. Just keep NC. She will know that you are okay without her by showing her you are NC. Going back again and contacting via email or text will tell her that you are still wrapped up with her/your situation. If your objective is for her to get the idea you are "not a pathetic loser still in love with her", then NC and leave her alone. NC is for you to heal and focus on you. Not to ponder and think about her and find ways to re-write what happened. Edited March 19, 2011 by geegirl
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