Balance11 Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 This friend of mine, i've known for about a year now, started off just casually texting, i asked her out, she said she was flattered but wasn't looking for anything then and didnt expect me to wait around, fair enough, move on kinda thing. She started texting me shortly afterwards, awkward at first but over the months its stronger than ever. Text each over numerous times everyday, the kisses went from the normal 1 to 4 consistently, she's started to phone me as well as texting, see's me at work sometimes ( big night club bar worker). Stuff we talk about is just joking on stuff but also serious stuff she says she hasn't told anyone else. Okay so i dont get this,she has other close male friends who she strongly points out are just her friends, couple days ago i bumped into her in town, spent an hour together before i had to go to work, seemed good, talked alot, she was laughing alot at things i said, hugged and cheek kiss when i went to work. I just don't understand the texting everyday throughout the day, I don't even talk to my other friends of either sex that much, and my dad was at my work before , he helps out with stock and such and when I told her who he was (she asked who he was) she went over and started talking to him, if she's out she'll always come into my work and talk to me, really confusing me. I really dont see if i'm a friend or if she's hinting for more, what would you do if you where in my position
grecian Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 The question here is: Do you like her? If you do why don't you ask her out? If she accepts and you can sense that she's into you for something more then pursue her. If she declines then just ignore her texts; you don't really have to tell her anything; just don't reply; she will eventually stop sending you messages. If she asks you about it be direct with her.
jadedone Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 you've become "one of the girls", man up and make an obviously romantic/sexual move.
dispatch3d Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 Do you like how things are currently going? I personally wouldn't. I don't have a strong interest in just texting girls back and forth all day (or even just texting all day to anyone). Meh, I'd probably let the texts die down and if she seemed interested I would ask her out. Right now it sounds like you are just friends, and you give her way more attention than she should get. Anyhow best of luck.
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